How And Why Women "Test" You

Now let's talk about how to meet women...

***COMMENT***

Dave,

I have been reading your emails for a while now.
Honestly I have been skeptical, Ive taken bad
advice from people in the past, and truthfully
only read your emails for the fun of it. I was
reading one morning while sitting kind of nervous
about this girl who clearly is interested, however
I have always been sort of self-conscious, not
realizing that in the past I have missed soo many
opportunities w/ many fine looking ladies, ya dig.

As I was reading it hit me, that what you are
saying is the truth. All it is simply put is Have
fun with the girl...just relax, and lead the show.
I dont think i have ever quite grasped any such
truth as this one. Although I am a slow learner,
I like you, am a scientist of how people
(including females) react and interact with
different situations, scenarios and environments.
I'm going to be real with you, your research
results are intriguing, and I for one am
thoroughly satisfied with what you are teaching us
males who, at one time or another did not have a
clue on how to get laid, but now do. I salute
you brother,

Holla back from Connecticut. M.N.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, it's been a LOOOONG time since I've
read the words "skeptical", "scientist",
"environments", "ya dig", and "Holla back" all in
one email.

I feel ya, dog. Poignant, yet profound.

I sure hope you don't use that unique balance
of proper English and Jive with the lizzadies.

And by the way, I'm not trying to teach men how
to "get laid". I'm teaching guys how to keep their
power for themselves, and how to give women what
they REALLY want...and how to trigger that emotion
called ATTRACTION, so that when the day comes that
they meet a TRULY AMAZING woman, they know what to
do to get and KEEP her (and if you want to have
some fun while you're learning, that's cool with
me too!).


***QUESTION***

Holy Crap!

Who would have know that a clueless guy like me
concerning women and dating, could go from being a
DUD to a STUD in only a matter of months?! I know
that the word "MONTHS" seems like a long time, but
I 'm one of those slow learners that really needed
to "Get It" at a deep level, before I started to
have success with women. I own both your book and
your advanced CD series, both of which have
literally changed my life forever! The
information that you taught us about Reframing our
limited beliefs was primarily the most POWERFUL
thing to me. The second most POWERFUL bit of
information that you shared on your advanced
series is what I have a question about. I noticed
that when dealing with, say, 7's & 8's, I have
"all" of the power. But when I interact with 9's
and 10's, I begin to feel unsure of myself a lot
of times.

David, you teach us in the CD series to assert OUR
reality up front. You said that the person who
believes that their reality exists the most and
who is able to communicate it the best, will
convince everyone around them that THIS reality is
what is real. So how do I build my reality? So
far, I have just decided that I won't tolerate
manipulative behavior, flakiness, rudeness (due to
that Cosmo girl - "superiority" mentality), etc.
But do I actually need to read a book about
building my reality, or do I just, from my
numerous interactions with women, DECIDE how I
want to build my reality (which means that I will
continue to make amendments to it over time until
I find the reality that suits me)? I think that I
MIGHT have answered my own question already. . . .
But ANY input would be GREATLY appreciated David.
V, from Oklahoma

>>>MY COMMENTS:

As you've heard me talk about in my Advanced
Series, it is VERY important that you look at the
world as "Your Reality", and behave as if this is
the case.

One way to "build" that reality is to IMAGINE
it vividly.

Einstein said that "Imagination is more
important than knowledge"... and a great marketing
genius named Roy Williams says that our minds are
far better suited to imagination than reality
ANYWAY.

So let me ask YOU...

If you could have your life be any way you
want, how would that be?

What would happen in your reality?

I was talking with a good friend of mine about
two weeks ago, and we decided that as humans
living in modern times, we can live almost any
life we want... if only we decide what that life
is going to be, and put our full attention on
making that our reality.

I know I'm starting to sound a little bit
"self-helpish" here, but this is the way it is.

And since I'm already ranting and raving like a
crazed guy who wants to give your inner child a
hug, I might as well go off on a random tangent
that I'm thinking about...

The night before last, I went out with three
friends.

All guys.

We went to watch a mutual friend's band play at
a bar, then went to another bar... and then
another.

At the third place, one of my friends saw a
girl that he wanted to meet.

She was what you might call an "L.A. Hottie".
She had on a bright red jacket that looked like
something an Indy car driver might wear... and she
had that look on her face that said "I'm pissed,
but I know I'm sexy when I'm pissed, so I'm going
to stay that way".

I looked at my friend and said, "Let's go".

As my friend and I were walking toward her, he
was asking me what he should say to her.

I realized something in that moment:

1) He was in a place mentally that was beyond
something that a "pick up line" would fix.

2) He was about to talk to a "professional" when
it comes to being approached by men.

3) He needed to learn something, not get the girl.

In the end, he said something to her (I won't
go into detail because it's not important), she
acted stuck up, and we walked away.

BUT HERE'S THE IMPORTANT PART...

It was obvious that he was feeling a little bit
uncomfortable about the whole interaction... about
approaching a hot, "unapproachable" girl, then
having her "shoot him down".

So I said, "Now what's the big deal? Does it
matter at all? NO!" Then I said, "Let's go talk to
someone else!". And we got back into the game, we
didn't sit on the sidelines feeling sorry for
ourselves.

I think that it's important to realize that
your reality is what you MAKE OF IT.

I have done a lot of "inner work" on my own
reality, and I've come to a deep understanding and
realization that no woman can take away my joy and
positive outlook on the world UNLESS I GIVE HER
THE POWER TO DO SO.

So guess what?

Women don't upset me anymore.

Use your IMAGINATION to create a reality that
you WANT to live in, and then start living there.
No one is going to call you up and say "Hey, I am
granting you permission to live the life you
want... so get to it."

You're going to have to CREATE the reality that
you want to live in... and then start living
there.


***QUESTION***

David-

I began reading your newsletter about 14 months
ago, and I purchased the ebook about 6 months ago.
The personal development that has occurred in me
since then has been astounding.

My confidence has increased dramatically. When you
are confident, people notice, and they
automatically respect you and want to be around
you. This breeds even more confidence. Women's
reactions to me has also changed significantly.
All of the sudden they want to talk to me, do
things for me, and be around me. Often times I
can't understand it, but I just keep acting the
same because it works. The mailbags have been key
to keeping me sharp so that I don't have wuss
attacks.

I have had a girlfriend for 6 months who is
incredible in personality, intelligence, and
looks. You were right when you said that getting
hot women does not make other guys like you more
but rather they become secretly jealous. This is a
good problem to have, however, and I guess the
price of success is having some people dislike you
for it, which I can deal with. Anyway, I realize
that you don't often talk about relationships but
here is the question: Will the physical
transitions that I make with her become old and
predictable?

For example, I have used the smell technique
successfully a few times, but sometimes she seems
impartial to it. I always do the teasing/soft
touch thing too, which used to get her anxious and
excited but now seems to be less exciting and more
predictable. How can I mix things up? The hair tug
has also worked magically well, when done at the
right time.

I guess I would like your thoughts on getting her
physically turned on other than with my
personality, and I would like your thoughts on
predictability when getting physical.

Thanks for all you do.

-T, Minnesota

>>>MY COMMENTS:

DANGER WILL ROBINSON... DANGER!

I just can't avoid relationship questions... I
try, but I can't do it.

STOP BEING PREDICTABLE.

You've only heard me say it about a bazillion
times now.

My thoughts on "predictability when getting
physical" are as follows:

DON'T.

Here are three things that would be MUCH better
than becoming predictable:

1) Shooting yourself in the foot with a BIG gun.

2) Buying a Pinto Station Wagon.

3) Taking a moment every day to CONSCIOUSLY avoid
set patterns in your life that KILL attraction.

Take it from me, a man who has screwed up more
than one relationship by becoming predictable...

DON'T.

And one more quick thought: I've discovered one
other secret to making sure that a woman NEVER
loses her attraction for you. It's a deep concept,
and it's part of a very in-depth program I've put
together called "Mastery With Women And Dating".
It's my most intense program, period. If you want
to learn this secret to keeping a woman attracted
to you, then go take a look at this website:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/Mastery


***QUESTION***

HI

My initials are J.E.S. from Illinois and i was
wondering does your method help put magic back in
a relationship? I have been married for 17 years
and my wife tells me she doesn't love me because
she doesn't find me sexually attractive. My
problem is that I still love her and find her
incredibly attractive is there anything I can do?

Sincerely, J.E.S.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yeah, I know... ANOTHER relationship question.

I must be in too good of a mood or something.

I just couldn't help but answer this one...

For women, SEXUAL ATTRACTION has more to do
with your personality, communication, and body
language than your LOOKS.

I've had many married men use my materials to
re-ignite their relationships with their wives
(even though I have never intended this to
happen).

If you want to get the "spark" back, stop
acting like a Wuss, stop being predictable, start
doing things that build ANTICIPATION... and learn
how to amplify attraction when you create it.

Oh, and hurry up.


***QUESTION***

You are my new babe GURU!

I am 43 years old, decent looking guy, make a very
average income. I was on a date with a STUNNING
bikini model and used aloof body language, played
it very low key, while being C & F. After our date
I leaned away from her against my drivers side
door and drove up to her home to drop her off.
Just pulled up and said good night. She wouldnt
leave the car and kept talking. I was polite and
aloof. she wouldnt leave and she kept staring at
me when there was a lull in the conversation. i
just sat there thinking, OK you can go now. she
didnt know what to do. finally she said can we go
out again?, I said maybe. and she said can I call
you to see you again?. i said call me if you have
something fun for me to do. it felt so good to not
be needy or pushy and it worked like a charm. Cant
wait for my next date. I will not call her and I
know she will be calling soon! Thanks for changing
my life, i look forward to more results like that.
I have started to think I have what women need
when I talk to them and it feels really great!

Thanks a million!!! RK in Hollywood

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, you're a stud.

But next time, when you're out in the car in
front of the house with a BIKINI MODEL and she
asks you if she can call you to see you again...
say "Yeah, maybe. Don't you have a cool new stereo
or fish tank that you want to show me?"

I feel ya on the non-needy thing, but you'd
better be writing in soon with a letter that
starts out with:

"...It was a good thing I let her go that
night, because NEXT time I saw her..."

I'll be waiting.

And GREAT job leaning back, not being needy,
and giving this particular girl an experience that
was MUCH different and MUCH more interesting and
exciting than any she's had recently.


***COMMENT***

DAVE MAN, PLEASE STOP MAKING UP URE CASE STUDIES
AND CUSTOMER RESPONSE STORIES THEY ARE FALSE AND
PORTRAY U AS A GENIOUS! U CAN HAVE A PERFECTLY
GOOD MAILBAG WITHOUT MAKING UP FALSE STORIES FROM
FALSE PEOPLE.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

DORK MAN, I do not and have not made up any
"case study" or "customer response story" ever.

Not even one, not at any time, no no no.

Every one of these letters is real, and they're
all from real people.

I actually go to extra efforts to keep every
single email that I get just in case I need to
prove this point to a dork like you in the future.

Of course, the privacy of my readers and
customers is more important than anything to me
(in other words, I'll never reveal the identities
of anyone who writes me publicly).

But if you want to put a little money on the
table and bet me... and fly out here to Los
Angeles to give it to me... I'd be glad to prove
it to you in person.

Let me know!


***QUESTION***

Dear Dave:

I've been receiving your e-mails for a while now,
and a buddy of mine bought me your program after I
broke up with my ex fiance saying I had been out
of the game for too long and needed a little help.
I just wanted to tell you about an experience that
I had a while back. I am 27 years old and dating
a 10 latin hottie that is 8 years older than me. I
ran into her at a local club last June and she had
a mutual friend introduce us. After talking to her
for a while I asked her to dance and she said she
couldn't because she came with a friend and didn't
want to disrespect him. I said "oh and talking to
me isn't disrespecting him?" I told her that if
she wanted to dance with me that I would be at
another part of the club and if I didn't have
another good looking girl on my arm to ask me to
dance. I said it being funny and she started
laughing, but this pretty much got her thinking.
I walked off and she wouldn't leave me alone for
the rest of the night, she kept on coming over to
where I was but never danced with me. At the end
of the night she came to me and said she wanted to
give me her number, I said that I was too old to
play her games and I didn't even want it and said
that I'll be there in a few weeks and if she
wanted to dance to meet me there.

Ok, using your techniques I had this girl pretty
much eating out of the palm of my hand because she
kept calling a mutual friend that was with me
asking him for my number. I told my friend not to
give it to her and to tell her that I was to busy
helping poor orphan kids find their parents. She
showed up a few weeks later at the club by herself
and the first thing she did was give me a kiss. I
still use the c&f on her to this day. She is
eating out of the palm of my hand and has been
with me since that night. This girl has men
hitting on her constantly, even when I am around.
She was a model in Mexico and I am just an average
looking guy, so yes your program does work and I
urge everyone to get it as soon as they can. I
can't thank you enough for all your help.

PCIII Texas

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well what can I say to that?

Someone should give you a kiss. And it had
better not be me.

You have told a story that demonstrates a
principle that most men will NEVER get...

Women don't PURSUE men who pursue THEM.

I don't really say what I'm about to say too
often, because it's really beyond most men to even
understand, and quite frankly, a lot of guys just
don't believe it...

But if you REALLY LEARN these concepts and
study the materials... and really take the time to
PERFECT your skills with women... you will start
having them chase after YOU.

I know many guys who have so many women calling
them that they literally have to AVOID the calls.

Yes, it is possible, and you can learn how to
do it. Thanks for your email... and thanks to your
buddy who got my program for you. He's a true
friend!


***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

I don't know how I got on your mail list....i am a
female and don't need to know how to attract other
females.... But I do find it interesting the
advice you give guys. How absolutely ludicrously
asinine you are!!!!!!! but I do read it and pass
some of the info onto my single male friends.

i am a reasonably attractive lady who loves men. i
have no problem getting dates or long term
relationships when i want them. but reading your
tombs makes me wonder if any one guy reading them
will ever get lucky.... a female has to be so
stupid or desperate to fall for your tactics. At
least my REAL MEN don't resort to such stupidity
and if they did they would be out of my life
totally.

one guy last week tried such tactics. i said no
thanks and walked out. he is still begging for my
attention and i am not going to give it. but yet
one man which you would call a wussie has slowly
been cultivating me for months. when i finally
decided to go out he was a gentleman and would not
talk to other females or give me the attitude of
being too good for me. i see him about once a
week and i am very comfortable with him I will
be with him tomorrow because he does not play
games.... he talks softly, gently and honestly.
he lets me know i am good and he is lucky to be
with me.... this is all any of us want to hear
whether we are male or female. we all want to be
exalted in the eyes of our dates, the world and
ourselves.

All the advice you give about the man making the
girl feel inferior and tentative is garbage.

i dare you to print this in your newsletter and
respond to it publicly

J m California

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Do you mind if I ask you a personal question?

WHAT KIND OF CRACK ARE YOU SMOKING?

It must be some really good stuff... because
you are out of it.

Let's talk, shall we? One adult to... well, a
crack smoker.

OK, so you call me "ludicrously asinine", and
then in the next sentence say that you pass on
some of the info you learn from me to your male
friends...

Huh?

Next, you start talking about a guy who "tried
such tactics" on you, and you "walked out". You go
on to say that this guy is "still begging for your
attention"... and that you're "not going to give
it".

Look, if any guy was practicing what I teach,
he would NEVER, EVER, EVER BEG ANY WOMAN FOR
ANYTHING... ESPECIALLY ATTENTION.

Tell me the truth: is this guy your crack
dealer? Is that why he knows how to get in touch
with you after you "walked out"?

And I guess you set me straight alright with
your example of the Prince Of Wusses who has been
"cultivating you for months" (sounds like some
kind of fungus experiment to me... try talking to
a specialist about it). He sounds like a real
keeper to me.

Your comment of "All the advice you give about
the man making the girl feel inferior and
tentative is garbage" has convinced me beyond the
shadow of a doubt that you should LAY OFF THE
CRACK, and pay more attention.

I have never, and will never, advise any man to
"make a woman feel inferior and tentative".

You know, I just remembered that I made a new
rule... that if a person demonstrated that they
were a JACKASS within the first three sentences of
their email to me, they could not be considered
for public humiliation in a mailbag like I'm
providing for you... but this was so tempting...
how could a guy help himself this time?


***COMMENT***

Dave, Got the book. Got the DVDs. No longer a
wuss. Nuff said.

Just sharing a quick story. The point is subtle,
but it's made a difference for me more than once:
(over instant messenger) Me: ok, so how am I being
mean again? Her: um, let me think... Her: i dont
know Her: maybe mean isnt the word i am looking
for Her: i think it's more that you do not adore
me as much as others and that annoys me

Translation: Obviously I don't really annoy
her...or she wouldn't be turning down other men
for me (she's an 8.5 looks). I just bust on her
whenever she attempts to make me her Drooling
Subservient Wuss Slave. (Be a man, get a woman.)

I do find it rather ironic that women spend so
much time trying to turn us into wusses they then
don't find attractive. It's not like us men go
around trying to make supermodels eat ice cream
and wear moo-moo dresses...

M Chicago

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Man oh man... you've opened up a can of worms
here.

I'll try to keep this short, but I can already
tell that I'm going to be rambling. Get a drink
for this one. We need to talk.

You have brought up a really important (and
subtle) point about how women behave around men.

When you stop chasing after and kissing up to
women, you will OFTEN hear things like "you're
being mean" and "I'm upset, and I don't know why",
etc.

And when you challenge women on this point,
you'll find the REAL reason: Women get upset when
they don't have CONTROL of a situation.

This is a paradox, as well... because women are
usually feeling ATTRACTED to you at the same time
they're saying these things.

A woman will test and challenge a man over and
over, virtually on a continual basis... just to
see if he's going to "crack" and reveal his Inner
Wuss. This has been going on since the first
human-like woman looked at the first human-like
man and hinted that if he was interested in making
babies that he'd better bring home some meat for
her...

Women aren't TRYING to turn us into Wusses...
on the contrary; they're trying to see if we
actually ARE wusses, and just PRETENDING not to
be.

Get it?

When you realize this SUBTLE distinction, you
are well on your way to learning to use The Force.

By the way, what's wrong with a super model in
a moo-moo eating ice cream?

Just think of it...

No more shopping at Bloomies for Chanel
Hydrabase Lipstick in "Beige Mythique" for
$22.00...

No more "Venti Skinny Two-Pumps-Of-Sugar-Free-
Vanilla Half-Decaf" lattes...

No more "I want a BABY GREEN salad, no
dressing, no croutons, no nothing... and a
chocolate mousse"...

"Moo moos and ice cream" is the way, man.


***QUESTION***

Just recently you had a person write to you about
how long it takes you to make up an email. Well
because you know what you are talking about, the
most of your time is reading the email then
copying it into your "news" letter. I think your
stuff really works if used right. The only thing
that has me confused is why should i buy the e-
book? It seems like you are teaching the whole
thing and their is no need to spend my money. Can
you give me some examples of what i am missing by
not buying your book? I am reading your emails and
wonder what all else could he possibly have to
teach me?

StG, >From some small little town all the way up
in Montana.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, how perfect.

A question I just LOVE to answer...

Imagine this, if you will:

Let's say that a friend of yours told you to
join an online discussion group, because it was
really interesting.

Let's further say that after you joined, you
realized that the topics they were discussing were
all about the Star Wars movie series.

They might be talking about things that Yoda and
Luke said... and having discussions about the
implications of various things... and even adding
new ideas that built on top of the basic
foundation that the actual movies created.

I could TELL you about Star Wars for 100 years.
I could do my best to describe the characters,
what they looked like, how they talked, and on and
on...

But to really "get" Star Wars you need to SEE
IT.

You need to make a decision to invest your
valuable time and money to EXPERIENCE it.

The same goes for my materials.

You are CHEATING yourself if you don't learn
the FOUNDATION... the SOURCE.

Two emails I've received come to mind...

One of them was to thank me for insisting that
guys read my book "Double Your Dating" in addition
to reading these emails, because that made him
actually do it... and he learned the FOUNDATION,
which made these Dating Tips and Mailbags REALLY
make sense.

The other was from a guy who came to one of my
live seminars. He wrote to tell me that when he
came to my live seminar he was expecting me to
just go over the things I covered in my book. But
when he arrived he was shocked to find that it was
almost ALL NEW material... and that the book was
just the beginning. (By the way, that was the
special live seminar I did that was Digitally
audio and video taped and edited to create my
Advanced Dating Techniques Program).

Do I want you to buy my book and other
products?

Of course.

Do I honestly believe beyond the shadow of any
doubt that it's worth 10 times the money, and will
help you become more successful with women and
dating better than anything else in the world?

Yep.

Look, I know this sounds a little crazy, but
I'm so sure that my materials are going to help
you become more successful with women that I'm
willing to let you try them out for FREE.

Yes, I'm talking no money up front. Try it
first. Then decide if it's for you.

Do I get screwed once in awhile, and some guy
orders my program, copies the whole thing, then
sends it back to me the SAME DAY and asks for his
money back?

Sure, of course it happens.

But, my offer is the right thing to do, and I
want to encourage you to invest in yourself... and
I make it so totally risk-free and easy that
you've got to do it.

My eBook and Advanced Series CD/DVD Program
will open your eyes on a whole new level. They
will repay your investment in no time flat... no
question.

You can get the Advanced Series here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AdvancedSeries

You can download my eBook immediately here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook

...both websites have several good free samples
and feedback from others who have them. Enjoy.

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

How To Read A Woman's "Body Language"

In a moment, I'm going to share how you can give a
woman a gut-level feeling of attraction for you...
using only your body language.

Best of all, you can use this knowledge to get
women to start approaching YOU.

But first, let me ask you...

Have you ever thought that if you just knew the
right words to say to a woman - or the perfect
"pick up line" - then you would have no problem
meeting women?

Most guys believe this.

For a long time, I believed this too.

But -

Have you ever approached a woman with what you
thought was a good "line", but she totally blew
you off?

I mean, you planned before hand what you were
going to say... and your delivery was perfect...
it HAD to work... but she rejected you anyway.

You might find this shocking, but here's the
truth:

There's a good chance she rejected you BEFORE you
said a single word.

That's right.

And if that's true, it means her rejecting you had
NOTHING to do with what you SAID.

Whatchoo talkin' 'bout Willis?

It's a bit of a mind scrambler, I know...

So, if your words weren't the thing that turned
her off, what did?

To figure this out, you have to take the
perspective of the woman...

The fact is, an attractive woman gets hit on ALL
THE TIME.

She's forced to develop ways to size men up fast -
and reject men who don't "measure up" IMMEDIATELY.

She's heard every line in book - so many times, in
fact, that she's learned to look BEHIND the lines
at something deeper... something that gives her a
clue to what the man is really like on the
INSIDE...

You know what this thing is?

It's...

BODY LANGUAGE.

If your body language suggests to her in any way
that you're not what she's looking for - that
you're not "man enough" - she will already have
made up her mind about you... BEFORE you even open
your mouth.

Faster than you can say "Game Over"... it's OVER.

But...

If your body language communicates the right
message to her, it almost doesn't matter WHAT YOU
SAY.

You're "in".

Say what?

In other words, you can approach a woman with even
a cheesy pick up line, or a compliment she's heard
five times that day - but if you're body language
is "right," she'll be open and receptive to you.

Interesting...

The fact is body language is CRITICAL to success
with women.

If you know how it works, the world if full of
opportunities.

If you don't, the world is full of rejection.

If you want to make a woman feel powerful sexual
attraction for you, you must learn how to show her
the body language she comes "pre-programmed" to
respond to.

Most guys have no idea what this is.

Instead they spend years looking for the perfect
words to say... never realizing that the wrong
body language will KILL your chances for success,
even if you use a great approach or "line."

After years of studying this topic - taking what I
learned from guys who are true MASTERS of body
language, and combining it with what I learned
from "evolutionary psychology" and my own
experience with women - I decided it was time I
put together a program that reveals the secrets of
how to use body language to attract women FAST.

A program that ANY GUY can use and see INSTANT
results.

I want you to take a minute and read how I
developed the most COMPREHENSIVE program for
learning how to attract women with Body Language -
so you can tell instantly how a woman is feeling,
whether or not she's interested in you, and
exactly what you need to do to take things to the
"next level" - right here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/BodyLanguage

You'll also see video clips of a special live
program I did, teaching guys how to project the
right "signals" so you can make a woman feel
powerful sexual attraction for you... even ACROSS
A ROOM.

Go here now and check it out:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/BodyLanguage

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your friend,

David D.

How To Get Rock-Solid Confidence With Women

I have a fascinating story to share with you.

If you're interested in boosting your
confidence with women, then you'll find this story
EXTREMELY valuable...

Here goes...

There once was a nice, smart guy who fell in
love with an amazing woman.

He couldn't believe how lucky he was to find
this one special person in his life.

After they dated for 2 blissful years, he took
her on a trip to the south of France... and
proposed to her.

To his relief, she said yes.

They were both so very happy.

Over the next year, they began to plan their
future together... including their wedding.

At the time, he was in medical school and he
felt guilty for leaving her alone so much while he
studied.

He told her:

"Honey, I want you to go out and meet some
people. It's not right that you stay home at night
just because I'm studying to become a doctor."

Well, she took his advice... and went out.

And one night, she STAYED OUT...

...all night...

...with an NFL quarterback, no less.

When our friend found out what happened, he was
DEVASTATED.

As you could imagine, this experience literally
turned his world upside down

But eventually he picked himself up...

... and when he did, he made a pledge to
himself...

He would do WHATEVER it took to figure out the
"inner game" of attraction, so that he could
become the kind of guy who could attract and keep
a high quality woman in a relationship, for as
long as he wanted... so he'd never have to go
through this pain again.

....

OK, now, the shocking thing about the story
above - is that it's NOT a "story."

It actually happened.

And the man it happened to is a very good
friend of mine... named Dr. Paul.

He's a world-renowned psychiatrist (not to
mention author, actor, model, and all around cool
guy)...

He literally is one of the most brilliant
minds I've ever met... and his knowledge of the
human mind is so deep that I had him help create
and present live on stage my Deep Inner Game
program.

If you're curious about getting your inner
game "handled" and developing rock-solid
confidence with women, I have some great news...

This month's Interviews With Dating Gurus...
is with Dr. Paul himself.

If you'd like to learn how to get in touch
with that masculine core inside of you - the core
that can attract women EFFORTLESSLY - then you
really need to check out this interview.

One of the things he shared is his definition
of POWER.

He says that part of Power is "positive
emotional energy," which has two parts:

1) Confidence

2) Well-being

He went on to say that you get more confidence
by transforming anxiety into courage. Or in other
words, by doing what you fear, over and over...

And you get more well-being by transforming
your anger into assertively getting your needs
met.

When you do those two things over and over - do
what you fear, and assertively go out and get your
needs met, you build your confidence and well-
being... which builds your "positive emotional
energy"... which makes you DAMN attractive to
women.

Here are just a few more of the secrets he
shared:

- How to get rock-solid confidence with women
(even if you tend to be a "shy" kind of guy)

- How to take the pressure off yourself when
you meet a new woman (so you come across as "cool
and collected")

- How to develop an Island of Resilience - so
that no woman can throw you off your game or make
you too nervous

- How to tell a woman's "personality type" the
instant you meet her - and how to tweak your
communication to fit her type so she feels
magnetically drawn to you.

- Why your future with a woman is made or
destroyed in the first 3 seconds you meet a woman
(and how to use those first few seconds to
maximize your chances of success)

- A critical lesson from Improv Comedy you can
use to create a strong connection with any woman
you meet

- How to let the wuss inside you die - and how
to make "friends" with the shadow inside yourself
- so you can unleash your ability to attract
women... and boost the confidence you enjoy in
EVERY part of your life

- How to have "mature boundaries" with women
(and why telling women "no" will EXPLODE your
success in dating and life...)

- The 4 different masculine archetypes - the
King, Warrior, Magician, and Lover - and how to
figure out which one YOU are (so you can unlock
your personal power)...

- and MUCH more...

I'm going to release this interview as this
month's edition of my "Interviews With Dating
Gurus" Monthly CD Audio Program.

If you're already a subscriber, sit tight.
You'll have it in your hands soon.

If you're not?

Well then... now would be a GREAT time for you
to sign up.

The secrets to confidence and mastering your
Inner Game that you'll learn in this interview can
literally change your life.

They will have a deep impact on your perspective
and where you're "coming from" when you interact
with women.

If you apply his teachings, you are practically
guaranteed to get more confidence with women...
more confidence in general... and to feel more
free to express the man you really are in EVERY
situation.

If Inner Game is something that interests you,
you'd be crazy NOT to listen to this interview.

But, there's a catch:

This interview is going to press this Thursday
morning, so I need you to be on board by
WEDNESDAY, April 15th at Midnight (PST) to make
sure you get your hands on it.

You can sign up here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/InterviewSeries

When you do, I'm also going to send you a free
"bonus" interview CD to say thanks for signing up.

This bonus interview is one of my personal
favorites... and I can't wait for you to hear it.

The best part?

I'm so confident that you are going to LOVE the
bonus interview and the interview with Dr. Paul...
that I am willing to make you a BETTER than 100%
guarantee.

Get them. Listen to them. If the information
you learn doesn't improve your Inner Game and
confidence in a BIG way, let me know.

Not only will I refund every cent of your
money, but I'm going to let you KEEP BOTH
interviews... just to say thanks for giving my
program a fair try.

That's how confident I am that these two
interviews will BLOW YOUR MIND.

Go ahead and sign up right now while you're
thinking about it - before you get distracted by
things that aren't nearly as important as getting
this part of your life handled, once and for all.

You have absolutely NOTHING to lose... and a
whole new perspective on women and life to gain.

Here's the link:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/InterviewSeries

Listen, if you're not learning all the tips my
guest experts share each month... then you really
need to start.

These interviews - like the one I did with Dr.
Paul - are PACKED with all kinds of secrets and
tips on how to become the kind of guy that
naturally triggers a gut-level attraction response
in women... in any situation you find yourself in.

Go here now if you'd like to get your hands on
the audio CD of this interview:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/InterviewSeries


If you know that your Inner Game could use some
"tuning up"... and you want to get an in-depth
education on exactly how to do it, then you should
also check out my "Deep Inner Game" program.

It's all about the psychology of overcoming your
inner limitations, fixing "belief-level" problems,
and developing a rock-solid self image and high
self-esteem. so you can confidently meet and
attract women.

It's the only program of its type. because it
takes the scientific breakthroughs from the field
of psychology, and applies them to this SPECIFIC
challenge of becoming more successful with women
and dating.

And as I said, Dr. Paul and I co-created this
program - and his wisdom takes this program to the
NEXT LEVEL.

Here are just a few of the specific you'll learn
in the program:

- How to patch up the holes in your self-esteem
FOR GOOD and build a rock-solid foundation of
confidence that all women "feel" when they're
around you

- Why human nature can actually PREVENT you from
having success with women. and what you absolutely
must do to overcome your "bad programming" and
start living the life you were born to live

- A 2-step exercise to identifying exactly how
you are letting women control your actions so you
can eliminate their influence and be YOUR OWN
person (Which in turn will cause you to attract
women like crazy)

- Do you ever feel like you are just too "nice"
or sensitive, or have a hard time saying "no"?
Here's a simple technique you can use when you
FEEL this happening to clear your head and make
the right choice

- A simple change in your attitude that will
prevent a woman from ever trying to take control
of your life

- Do you find that the women you are REALLY
interested in seem to LOSE interest in you after a
few dates? Here's why. (It's a surprisingly easy
fix once you know the reason)

- and MUCH more...

I would love for you to try my Deep Inner Game
program along with your copy of my interview with
Dr. Paul, because you'll not only learn how to
instantly improve your confidence with women, but
you'll also learn critical skills to move more
powerfully through LIFE.

If you go to the link below and "opt in" to my
monthly interview series, I'll send you:

-- A copy of my Deep Inner Game program on either
CD or DVD for you to try free for a month before
you need to decide to pay for it, or return it and
pay nothing

-- A copy of my interview with Dr. Paul on audio
CD and the special bonus CD

-- A new interview mailed to you once a month each
month, unless you decide you want to stop
receiving them. You can cancel ANYTIME. There's no
long-term obligation whatsoever.

But if you want to have my interview with Dr.
Paul, you have to place your order by midnight
this Wednesday, April 15th.

Here's where to learn more about my Deep
Inner Game program, get some free tips on how to
improve your confidence and inner strength right
away, and watch free video clips from the program:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/DeepInnerGame

Don't waste another day letting fear, anxiety,
or insecurity hold you back from the women - and
life - you deserve.

Try my Deep Inner Game program for free for 30
days and see for yourself how much help and value
you'll get immediately.

And if you're not interested in my interview
with Dr. Paul right now, that's fine - just "opt
out" of the interview series and simply get a copy
of the Deep Inner Game program sent to you
(although I recommend you get BOTH):

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/DeepInnerGame

And if you JUST want the interview with Dr.
Paul, go here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/InterviewSeries

I'll talk to you soon.

David D.

How To Impress ANY Woman

I've learned a secret to impressing women that
I'm going to share with you in this newsletter.

It's a secret that probably not 1 in 1,000 men
knows or will ever figure out on his own.

The REASON that most men will never figure out
this particular secret is that it's TOO OBVIOUS.

Let me explain...

I personally think that most men feel a very
powerful desire to IMPRESS women.

If you watch the way a man behaves when he's
talking to a woman he's just met or a woman that
he's on a first date with, you can SEE IT.

Maybe you've been there yourself.

I know I have. Many, many times, in fact.

The feeling that you need to impress a woman
usually comes along with another feeling: DON'T
SCREW THIS UP.

Here are some of the signs that a guy is
feeling the need to "impress" the woman that he's
talking to:

1) He tries to only say "cool" things, or things
that will "impress" the woman.

2) He acts nervous and stilted during the
conversation... sometimes coming across as
"formal".

3) He tries to figure out what the woman wants
to hear.

4) If he says something that the woman doesn't
like, he "back-pedals" and tries to change what
he said to suit the woman.

5) He doesn't say anything "risky", doesn't tease
the woman, and doesn't do anything to upset her.


...in other words, when a guy is talking to a
woman that he "likes", he's usually on his "best
behavior", and he's trying to "put his best foot
forward".

To say it again, MEN FEEL A POWERFUL DRIVE
TO IMPRESS THE WOMAN THAT THEY "LIKE".

And this drive to impress often makes them
act UNNATURAL.

There's your first hint, in fact...


THE SECRET

Remember at the beginning when I told you that
I was going to share a secret with you about how
to impress women that not 1 in 1,000 men will
figure out on their own?

Well, here it is:

STOP TRYING.

If you will just STOP TRYING to impress women,
and do the things I'm teaching you instead, women
will NATURALLY be "impressed" by you.

TRYING TO IMPRESS A WOMAN DOESN'T IMPRESS HER.

So let's break this down...


WHY IMPRESSING WOMEN IS THE WRONG ROAD

What's wrong with trying to "impress" women,
anyway?

To start with, EVERYTHING.

When you intentionally try to impress a woman,
you send the following messages on a "subtle" level:

1) I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I
will try to "impress" you instead.

2) I'm not comfortable enough around women to just
act normal.

3) I don't have a lot of experience with attractive
women.

4) I'm insecure.

5) I don't know how to make women feel comfortable
with me.


Ouch.

But it's the truth.

Women can TELL INSTANTLY when you're "trying".

The conversation doesn't feel "normal", your
body language is strange, and you can't seem to
have a regular conversation.

Now of course, I've just described the way that
about 99.9999% of men act when they're first talking
to a woman that they "like".

Are you ready for a profound insight?

Here goes...

MOST MEN DO THIS WITH MOST ATTRACTIVE WOMEN MOST
OF THE TIME. IN OTHER WORDS, IT'S OLD NEWS. IT'S
BORING. IT'S PREDICTABLE. AND IT DOES NOT IMPRESS
AT ALL.

The bottom line is that trying to impress a
woman usually has the OPPOSITE effect.

It not only makes you look like a nervous guy
who can't make normal conversation... it also
bores the hell out of women.


WHAT TO DO INSTEAD

OK, so you're out having a cup of tea with a
beautiful woman you just met a few days before...

She asks you what you do for a living.

Should you answer with:

1) "Well, I'm an engineer for a software company
that makes sophisticated vector widget plotting
algorithms. I've been with them for three years,
and I'm about to be promoted to ALGORITHM
MANAGER."

2) "I do stunt work. Have you ever seen it in
a movie when a hot actor has to reveal his naked
ass? That's my job."

...?

Well, it all depends on what your outcome is.

If you want to try and IMPRESS the girl with
your cool high-tech job, then #1 will work just
fine.

Unfortunately, it won't impress her at all,
and it will make you sound like a jackass who is
trying to sound cool.

If you want to ACTUALLY impress her, try #2.

Most men don't have the BALLS to say something
like this when a woman asks a "serious" question
like "What do you do?".

If you REALLY want to make a long-lasting
impression, KEEP THE HUMOR GOING.

She'll say "No, really... what do you do?".

Answer with: "No, really. Haven't you ever
seen it when an actor needs a stunt ass? I mean
hey... someone's got to do it".

Now, I can't possibly go into all the reasons
why it's a HUGE MISTAKE to try to impress a woman,
or to feel like everything you say should be
"impressive".

There are MANY reasons for this.

MORE IMPORTANTLY, there are a few things you
can do that will INSTANTLY impress a woman...
and I mean REALLY impress her.

But these things aren't OBVIOUS.

The most IMPORTANT thing you can do to
IMPRESS a woman is make her feel a powerful
emotional ATTRACTION for you.

This feeling will stay with her long after you
have left and gone home.

And it's the one thing that will make women
pursue YOU... and try to impress YOU.

What's the best way to do this?

1) Stop trying to IMPRESS women. Stop now.

2) Go download a copy of my online eBook "Double
Your Dating", and read it. It contains literally
DOZENS and dozens of great techniques for you to
use that will make women feel ATTRACTION for you.

And if you've already read my eBook, and you're
ready to take your success to an entirely new
level, then you must get yourself a copy of my
"Advanced Dating Techniques" CD/DVD Program.

This is the most complete, detailed, step-by-
step system available for becoming the kind of
man that women want to be with.

This program is GUARANTEED 100% by me to take
you to the next level and beyond with women.

Check out the free samples of both my eBook
and my Advanced Dating Techniques Program...

The eBook is here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook

The Advanced Series is here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AdvancedSeries

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

Why You Should NOT Compliment A Woman

This time I'm going to include an email that I
got from a WOMAN. Now, I get a lot of email from
female readers, and I include a lot of it in my
"Mailbags"... but this particular email just stuck
out, and I think that we can all learn something
important from it.

Keep reading, because this gets interesting...

COMPLIMENTS OR NO COMPLIMENTS?

To compliment or not to compliment... that is
the question.

Women tell us they want us to compliment them.

Your mom told you to be nice to girls, right?

And we guys like to really "turn up" the
Compliments when we LIKE a woman...

But here's the question:

Do compliments create ATTRACTION when you first
meet a woman?

Most of the time the answer is NO.

I have a word for guys who like to give women
lots of compliments when they first meet her.

That word is WUUSSY.

Recently, I got an email from a woman about
this very topic that I thought would be the
perfect way to introduce this and explain WHY
compliments are not the way to build attraction...

***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***

I agree that your "funny/cocky" routine works very
well and women are attracted to it. Yet, I have to
disagree with you on one aspect, women LOVE to be
complimented. They live for it. Why else, but to
get men's attention and be complimented, do they
spend hours getting ready, and buy all that sexy
clothing? Sure, their faces light up when you make
them laugh or they really have fun. But, how many
times have you seen that special girl smile at you
and kiss you like there's no tomorrow when you
tell her she's the most incredible thing in the
world and that she's so beautiful you just can't
stop loving her? Probably never, because you think
that's a "wuss" thing to do. But, you don't know
how wrong you are.

J.

-IL

>>>MY COMMENTS

I love that women are out there reading and
thinking about my material (especially the Cocky &
Funny comment). Good stuff.

I'm going to break down the things you're
talking about into a few specific topics, then
address them individually.

Here are the three that I'd like to address:

1) The idea that women LOVE to be complimented.

2) The idea that women spend all of their time and
energy getting ready and fixing themselves up
because they want compliments.

3) The difference between complimenting a
"special" girl and complimenting just ANY girl.

Here are a few things to keep in mind as you
read my commentary on this letter and these
different topics:

A) We humans (and I'm talking about women in
particular here) don't always REALIZE what we
REALLY want.

B) We humans don't like to admit what's REALLY
going on inside of us, because it can be
irrational and illogical.

C) It's very important to realize that there is a
CRITICAL difference between a girl you've just met
or have dated a few times and a SPECIAL girl in
your life.

So, let's talk about the topics individually...

THE IDEA THAT WOMEN LOVE TO BE COMPLIMENTED

Do women love to be complimented?

I think so.

In fact, I think that many really ATTRACTIVE
women FEED off of attention and compliments. The
more attention and compliments they get, the
better and more powerful they feel. It's an ego
boost.

BUT... and it's a BUTTTTT bigger than J-Lo's,
this doesn't mean that a woman will feel ATTRACTED
to you if you give her compliments.

Attractive women get compliments in various
forms all the time. In fact, they're so used to
getting compliments, that's what they EXPECT.

As a matter of fact, if you start talking to an
attractive woman and say, "Wow, you're really
beautiful. I mean, you're like a goddess... are
you a model or an actress?" etc., the most LIKELY
response you're going to get is her giving you the
cold shoulder.

Why?

Because SHE GOT WHAT SHE NEEDED FROM YOU and
you showed her that you're JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER
guy out there that will worship her for her
physical beauty.

As a general rule, you ALWAYS want to avoid
being mentally slotted into the "average" and
"like all the other guys" category at ALL COST.

I have started conversations by giving a woman
a compliment, but I NEVER let it become part of
the actual conversation. If anything, I begin
teasing and making fun of her looks as soon as
possible, if she's REALLY hot-looking. And I never
give the compliment in a way that says, "I'm
intimidated because you're obviously very powerful
and desirable."

NOTE: If you want to learn how to master the
art of "busting" on women and using teasing and
cocky humor to create ATTRACTION, then you should
go here and check THIS out (make sure you watch
the videos):

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/CockyComedy


On to idea #2...

WOMEN SPEND ALL OF THEIR TIME AND ENERGY GETTING
READY, FIXING THEMSELVES UP, AND DRESSING SEXY TO
GET COMPLIMENTS

About 4 or 5 years ago when I was first
learning about how to be successful with women, a
good friend of mine said something that totally
shocked me.

He said, "Women don't dress up for men, they
dress up for each other."

I was stunned.

I couldn't understand the logic behind this for
the life of me. It still makes me shake my head
when I think about it.

As it happens, I have lived in Southern
California for a few years (San Diego and Los
Angeles). This is a place where beautiful women
from all over the world come to seek fame and
fortune.

I have been able to see things and learn things
here that would have taken much longer to learn if
I had lived in other places, because I can see how
attractive women interact with EACH OTHER more
often.

If you put a group of attractive women together
in a club or bar, and watch them carefully, you'll
see something interesting begin to happen...

The women will start doing "catty" things, like
looking each other up and down with disgusted
looks, making negative comments to their friends
about how other women look, and trying to
intimidate other women with their eyes.

Most men would never notice this subtle
communication that's going on between women, but
if you look for it, you'll find it.

The fact is that women don't like to compete
with each other on the football field, they
compete to be the most attractive.

Men could really care less what a woman is
wearing or how she's dressed for the most part.
Sure, it's nice to see a woman dressed well, but
it's just not that important.

But for women it's a whole different matter
entirely.

Women, and especially attractive women, don't
like the idea that another woman is getting more
attention than her. And women can tell very
quickly if another woman is more attractive...
this leads to "bitch looks", negative comments,
and other amazing displays.

To summarize, women don't spend a lot of time
fixing themselves up to get compliments, they do
it to compete with and impress other women. Ask a
few attractive, well-dressed women about this and
they'll tell you.

Finally, point #3...

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN COMPLIMENTING A GIRL YOU
DON'T KNOW VERY WELL AND A "SPECIAL" GIRL

My topic is women and dating.

WOMEN AND DATING.

It's not "women you're in a relationship with"
or "special girls" or anything of the sort.

After you've gone out with a woman for a few
months or so, and she proves to you beyond the
shadow of a doubt that she's a great PERSON, then
I think it's great to consider making her your
"special girl."

And yes, the dynamics change at that point. You
can be nicer... you can be more complimentary...
you can do more thoughtful things... At this stage
this kind of thing will have a different meaning
(BUT, DON'T EVER TURN INTO A WUSSY!)

As I mentioned, if you start talking to an
attractive woman and you immediately start with
the "You are beautiful and I'm not worthy"
routine, you shoot yourself in the foot.

There's a HUGE opportunity in these first
meeting situations, but most guys never even
CONSIDER it because it's not what comes naturally.

The thing to do when you meet an attractive
woman is to actually TEASE AND BUST on her a bit,
rather than giving her compliments.

This effectively scrambles her whole program
and causes her to lose her composure. It takes her
off guard and shakes her out of her world... so
you can actually have a conversation.

Remember the newsletter awhile back with the
guy who walks up to women and says, "Your fly is
open", then walks away?

The woman always comes and finds him to say,
"You're a JERK!"... and then he laughs at her...
and the woman winds up going out with him.

Verrrrrry interesting.

Do you think it would work the same way if he
walked up to women and said, "You're amazingly
beautiful" and then walked away?

I think not.

So in summary, it's true... women do in fact
like compliments. But, if you want to make a woman
feel that magical feeling of ATTRACTION for you,
then you might think twice about giving them too
early on.

Women like compliments that they have to WORK
FOR a lot more than the ones that just come to
them.

...and if you're reading this right now and
thinking to yourself, "You know, I need to learn
this stuff about how to meet and attract women so
I can get rid of that insecure and fearful feeling
I have", then YOU'RE RIGHT!

I think that every man should invest in himself
and learn this skill.

Unfortunately, most guys never take the time
and invest in themselves... and they wind up going
their whole lives WISHING that they could attract
the kinds of women that they want.

Well, I used to be one of the guys who didn't
know what he was doing with women. Now I'm one of
the guys who can go out anytime, in any situation
and attract women.

What's the difference?

I TOOK THE TIME TO LEARN.

And if you'd like to learn, then I recommend
you learn the things that I learned FIRST.

It's taken me a long time to figure all this
stuff out and it's also taken a lot of time,
effort and energy on my part to put it all down on
paper, and on audio and video... so that any guy
can learn from the things I've discovered.

I'd like to personally invite you to check out
my materials. In a matter of hours you can learn
things that took me YEARS to figure out... all
from the comfort and privacy of your own home.

My Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD Program
has over 12 full hours of me teaching live... all
recorded and edited in high-quality digital video
and audio. It contains literally HUNDREDS of great
ideas for meeting and dating women... and it's
probably the single best investment you can make
in your dating life.

You can check out the details of that program
right here... and watch some great preview video
clips as well:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AdvancedSeries

If you tend to give compliments because you are
looking for APPROVAL from women, I recommend that
you check out my program DEEP INNER GAME.

It condenses a hundred years of concepts from
psychology, behavior, and inner change... and then
focuses and interprets all of this wisdom... and
gives you a step-by- step, fool-proof system for
overcoming inner challenges, dealing with fears,
and building a more powerful and confident self
image.

There is truly nothing else like this program
anywhere in the world... and you can check out all
the details (plus watch some great video clips of
the program) right here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/DeepInnerGame

Lastly, if you haven't read my original ebook
called "Double Your Dating", then you need to do
that RIGHT NOW. It's the FOUNDATION for everything
I teach in these newsletters, and for everything I
teach in my Advanced Series. It's a "must read"
and you can download it online and be reading it
in about 5 minutes... right here, right now:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

Questions About Approaching Women Answered

Have you had a chance to check out my new
"Approaching Women" program yet?

I've been getting a lot of questions about the
program... and I wanted to take a minute and
answer a few that you may have had on your mind...

Of course... the MOST common question guys are
asking is:

"Will I FINALLY Get Some "Pickup Lines"?

The answer is YES.

In fact... this program is going to put you in
PICKUP LINE HEAVEN.

You're going to learn lines for every situation
you can image... and a whole lot more.

But perhaps more importantly than that...
my guests and I are going to teach you some of our
closely-guarded "all purpose" lines to start up a
conversation with a woman smoothly in ANY
situation.

THIS is the REAL GOLD... because these lines
are like "Conversation-Starting MAGIC"...

Not only do they get the conversation
started... they get things going in a way that
triggers MASSIVE ATTRACTION in a woman from the
start.

Simply memorize these and you'll never be at a
loss for words with a woman again.

But don't share these particular lines with
your friends... they're FAR too good!

"But... I don't want a bunch of 'canned'
material... will this program teach me to approach
woman spontaneously and NATURALLY?"

You better believe it.

The lines you learn are designed to be used as
training wheels.

Sure... you may want to use them over and over
again. Hey, they work... why not?

But you'll also learn formulas for creating
your own great lines on the spot. And my
favorite - how to start conversations WITHOUT
"pickup lines"... in a way that is NATURAL and
COMFORTABLE.

So take your pick.

What I suggest you do is memorize some of the
great lines my guests and I share with you, and
get out there and USE THEM.

After you get a few approaches under your belt,
you're going to start to "feel it"...

You'll begin to understand what you need to do
in each situation to start up a conversation and
spark ATTRACTION... and after a short while, the
PERFECT thing to say will just start popping
into your head at the perfect time.

It's a cool feeling... and it will happen
sooner than you think!

Another one I've been hearing a lot is:

"Will this program help me get over that
PARALYZING feeling I get in my stomach when I see
a woman I want to meet?"

If ANYONE can relate to this feeling, it's me.

I remember when I would see an attractive woman
and feel absolutely HELPLESS... even when I
thought of something clever to say, I just
couldn't bring myself to ACTUALLY DO IT.

It wasn't an easy thing to shake.

Ever since I first started helping other guys
get this part of their lives handled, I wanted to
come up with a way that guys could get over this
FAST... so they wouldn't have to experience the
YEARS of frustration that I did.

Well... I'm excited to say that I've finally
done it... and this program is IT.

In it, I'll show you some simple exercises that
will help you BEAT these ugly feelings out of your
system PERMANENTLY - and a lot faster then you
think.

I'll also share with you a few quick and
effective tricks you can use "in the field" when
you see an attractive woman you'd like to meet
and nervousness starts kicking in...

You'll learn to charge yourself with FORCEFUL
CONFIDENCE on the spot... and walk right up to her
and make something happen... without giving it a
second thought.

If you're like the other guys who've gone
through this program... watch out. You're going to
be surprised at how well this stuff works.

Next question:

"Will this stuff help me meet women in regular
places, or just bars and clubs?"

This program is COMPLETE education on
approaching women and starting conversations.

You'll learn to meet women EVERYWHERE... and in
ALL situations.

You'll also learn the SPECIFICS.

How to meet women who are alone vs. women who
are out with friends... and yes, how to meet women
who are out with their guy friends.

It's all in here...

"Will this program teach me where to take women on
dates, what to say to a woman on the phone, and
how to turn a woman on in bed?"

No.

This program is all about APPROACHING WOMEN,
STARTING CONVERSATIONS, and SPARKING ATTRACTION.

And if you don't know how to do those things,
you won't have to worry about dates, the phone, or
"getting physical."

Sure... you might meet a woman through friends,
through your job, or through BLIND LUCK... but the
fact is this:

Without the skill of being able to approach
women and start conversations, your options are
SEVERLY LIMITED.

So let me ask you this:

How's that been working out for you so far?

Are you meeting the amount and QUALITY of women
you want?

Or... is it about time you got this handled...
and TRIPLED or QUADRUPLED your opportunities to
meet women, get dates... and get it on?

If you answered "YES", I want you to do me a
favor...

I want you to give my new "Approaching Women"
program a try.

Try it out for 30 days AT MY RISK. I'll even
pay the shipping to send it out to you...

Get out there and use the techniques.

If you don't start seeing results
IMMEDIATELY... and I mean BIG RESULTS... I'm
talking about meeting AT LEAST 3 times the amount
of women you are meeting now... I want you to pack
it up and send it back to me, and pay nothing.

And here's another promise I want to make to
you...

What if you get this program out there and
learn the techniques... but you are still too
nervous to approach a woman and actually try them
out?

Listen, if this program doesn't help you
completely CRUSH those devastating feelings of
shyness and anxiety and banish them from your body
FOR GOOD, then I haven't done my job... and I want
you to send the program back to me and pay
nothing... no questions asked.

But the truth is, that's NOT going to happen.

I know that DAYS or even HOURS from the time
you go through it, you're going to find yourself
with the ability to approach the woman of your
choice with a natural ease and ability that amazes
all within earshot... and more importantly...
impresses the woman you are talking to and MAKES
HER WANT YOU.

I'm totally serious here... and I want you to
experience it for yourself.

Give my program a try... you've got nothing to
lose... and a whole new world of POWER and CHOICE
with women to gain.

It's here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/Approachingwomen

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

The Personality Type That Attracts Women

I get a lot of emails from guys who read my
newsletter that say things like...

"I'm sure what you're saying is right, but I don't
want to be a jerk or an a**hole to women..."

...or...

"I have seen what you're talking about happen all
my life, but I'm a 'nice guy' and I want women to
like me for me..."

...and...

"This doesn't make sense..."

For most of my life, I was THE nice guy of nice
guys. As a matter of fact, when I first made the
decision to learn how to be successful with women,
this actually created an OBSTACLE for me.

Let me explain...

Because I believed that "being a nice guy" MUST
be the way to success with women, I ACTUALLY
COULDN'T EVEN PERCEIVE ANY OTHER WAY.

In other words, I could see a situation where a
woman was attracted to a mean, abusive guy and
think to myself that either she must be screwed up
in the head, or THAT THE GUY MUST BE REALLY NICE
TO HER THE REST OF THE TIME.

As you probably know, it's hard to convince a
person to believe something when they already have
a belief about the topic. The person that you're
trying to convince just uses whatever you say to
convince themselves that they're actually right...
and you're wrong.

I did the exact same thing.

No matter how much evidence I found to the
contrary, I still somehow believed that being a
"nice" guy, buying women flowers and gifts, taking
them out, and generally letting them be in control
of the relationship HAD to be the way to attract
them.

Well, after continuing along the same path and
getting the same results, I realized something
that literally changed EVERYTHING for me.

I realized that JERKS do, in fact, attract hot
women.

Selfish behavior, as unhealthy as this might
sound, often makes women feel attracted to you.

Sarcasm, ball busting, playing hard to get and
all kinds of other "illogical" things really do
work when it comes to attracting women.

But, then I had a dilemma...

I love the idea of being successful with women
but, I HATE the idea of mistreating people, being
mean to them, lying and being misleading, etc.

Deep down, I wanted to be a good guy.

I decided that there MUST be a way to make this
work, and to attract women without being ABUSIVE.

The good news is that THERE IS a way.

But, it requires that you put aside your
current ideas for just long enough to entertain
some new ones.

First, let me say that I believe I've found a
way to take the things that JERKS do to attract
women and use them WITHOUT THE ABUSE. When you
learn to do this, you can really have the best of
both worlds... you can be nice to women on your
own terms, and give them what they REALLY want,
and what REALLY attracts them.

So, WHY DO WOMEN BECOME ATTRACTED TO JERKS?

The short answer is that they don't CHOOSE it,
it's something that just HAPPENS.

ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE.

It's an emotional response to certain things.

Women don't CHOOSE to feel the emotion called
ATTRACTION for jerks any more than YOU choose to
feel the emotion called ATTRACTION for young,
beautiful, hard bodied women.

Nature has preprogrammed MEN with a mechanism
that works like this:

SEE HOT WOMEN ---> FEEL ATTRACTION

Well, women have a similar mechanism. But I
think that the female version is MORE COMPLEX.

Yes, women do feel attraction for extremely
handsome men... but they feel a MUCH STRONGER
ATTRACTION for certain PERSONALITY TRAITS and
BEHAVIORS than they do for physical looks alone.
(This is a complex topic that I don't have the
time to explain in detail here, but if you want to
get a more detailed explanation of how this
process works, then go read this:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/SexualCommunication

So, again the short answer is that it's just
something that "happens" inside of a women. She
doesn't "choose" it.

So, what is it about the "jerk" that creates
this powerful, uncontrollable ATTRACTION inside of
women?

Let me answer first by telling you what IT'S
NOT:

It's NOT the abuse (not usually anyway). I
don't believe that women are attracted to that
abusive, mean, negative part of the "jerk
personality".

I think that jerks JUST HAPPEN to also possess
several ATTRACTIVE qualities that are SO POWERFUL
that they literally make women BLIND to the
abuse... women will rationalize and excuse the
abusive behavior because they are so attracted to
these other qualities.

Here's a PARTIAL list of what creates that
ATTRACTION:

- Unpredictable

- Uncontrollable

- Challenging

- Dominant

Of course, there are many more, but this will
get us started for this discussion.

The qualities I've listed above, when presented
correctly, trigger the natural "attraction
mechanism" inside of women.

Jerks have taken natural qualities that are
ATTRACTIVE to women a little "too far".

But because they're still there, the qualities
trigger the attraction anyway.

So, what does this mean to you?

Well, the most important thing is that it means
you can still be a good guy AND attract women at
the same time.

You're probably going to have to learn how to
flirt in a different way, become a little more
comfortable being challenging to women, etc. But,
in the end, you'll find that this will get you
what you want and still allow you to treat women
well... all on your own terms.

It also means that instead of being the guy who
women talk to about their relationship problems
and how their mean jerk boyfriend is being abusive
again... you can be the guy who they're dating and
sleeping with!

Yes!

Now, I'd like you to take time to think about
what I've said here in this newsletter.

Think about how you can cultivate the four
qualities that I've mentioned above into your
personality.

See if you can be a little less predictable.

Don't let outside events or women control you.

Be more of a challenge.

Stop being submissive... and get in touch with
that side of you that is more dominant (I said
"dominant", not "domineering").

This will give you a GREAT head start.

And, if you're ready to get an IN-DEPTH
education on the topic of creating ATTRACTION,
then you MUST read my new online eBook "Attraction
Isn't A Choice".

This book will take you "behind the scenes" and
show you how to communicate with women in a way
that TRIGGERS the attraction... instead of trying
to be a "nice guy" and CONVINCE her to feel it for
you.

You can download it right now, and be reading
it within a few minutes. Go download it here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AttractionBook

And, if you'd like to learn how to master my
very FAVORITE technique for creating attraction,
then you need to go and check out my "Cocky
Comedy" CD/DVD program.

Inside this program, you'll learn how to make
women laugh... and laugh in a way that creates
ATTRACTION.

This is the only program of its kind available
ANYWHERE, and I guarantee that this program will
DRAMATICALLY increase your success with women...

If you want to learn how to master the
technique that will get you results fast, then
this is the one for you...

Here's the deal.

I REALLY want you to see this program.

I am convinced that it will change your life,
and help you meet more women.

I've set up my ordering system so that you can
order my program, and NOT PAY ANYTHING up front
for it.

In other words, you don't have to decide now.

You can order it, watch or listen to it all the
way through, THEN decide if you want to keep it.

If you don't want it, send it back. No
questions and no hassles.

If you want to keep it (and I'm betting that
you will), you'll make five easy monthly payments
(so it's easy on your budget).

The time is now, and the deal is UNBEATABLE.

Go watch some great preview video clips here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/CockyComedy

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

Secrets About Women Mom Never Taught You

***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***

Dave, Why is it that a woman who is only
interested in the funny, cocky and challenging
(i.e., interesting) men, later in life tries to
raise sons that are sweet, thoughtful and "nice"?
(i.e., run of the mill)!! WS New York

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a VERY interesting question, and I'm
glad you emailed me to ask it.

I'm going to give you my personal take on this.
But, more importantly, I'm going to talk about how
these kinds of paradoxes exist right in plain
sight all around us... and how to interpret them
so you can increase your own personal success with
women and dating.

So, to answer your question first...

I've spent a lot of time researching this
topic, and doing a lot of personal testing to see
if I could find some answers.

Right now, as I write this, I think that it
goes like this:

"Being Nice" in the way that you're describing,
usually means things like: giving compliments,
buying gifts, providing food, doing favors,
tolerating emotional manipulation, pretending to
be in a good mood even if you're not, etc.

I believe that this is mostly a SOCIALLY and
CULTURALLY CONSTRUCTED set of "rules". There may
be some "hard wiring" in us that makes us
"naturally" want to do nice things for women so
they'll give us approval, but I think it's mostly
PROGRAMMED into us...

Now, think about it this way: These "nice"
things are typically very FEMININE things to do...

So, what's a mom in today's culture going to
teach her son?

Of course... how to be "nice" to girls.

And, what if there's no dad around to help out
in the "training" of a son? You guessed it... even
MORE "nice" programming from mom.

The bottom line is that most of the people
walking around on this planet have NO IDEA how
ATTRACTION works, and therefore will never be able
to TEACH another person how this fabulous process
works.

This includes mothers. Mom loved you and wanted
the best for you, she just had no idea how to
explain what makes women feel ATTRACTION. Mom may
have gotten the tingles when she saw Clint
Eastwood shooting everyone... and Neil Diamond
running around with his sneer, hairy chest and
that pickle in his jeans... (and that reminds
me... EWWWWWW... your mom is gross, dude).

But, this doesn't mean that she can or would
explain to her boy how to make this happen with
other women!

Check this out: If you would like to learn my
own PERSONAL secrets for how to overcome this
problem of not knowing how to become a man who
NATURALLY attracts women, then you should go here
NOW:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/OnBeingAMan

OK. Let's talk about what we can actually LEARN
from this kind of phenomenon.

The thing that really fascinates me about
people is THEIR ABILITY TO HAVE NO IDEA WHAT'S
GOING ON... even though it's going on IN PLAIN
SIGHT ALL AROUND THEM... and the even MORE amazing
tendency to ARGUE VIOLENTLY WHEN one of these
OBVIOUS THINGS IS PRESENTED TO THEM.

I've read some fascinating books about the
concept of "self-deception", and I've come to
realize that we humans have an amazing capacity
for not seeing what's there... to the point where
it can be very bad for us.

Like I just said, we often ARGUE about things
that are OBVIOUS to others... which makes it even
worse.

I need to stop ranting and raving, and land the
plane on this one...

This mechanism is, of course, a survival
mechanism that helps us to weed out all of the
useless information that's coming in through our
senses at any given time, but it can go overboard
and prevent us from seeing USEFUL information as
well.

Next Point: A lot of our cultural and social
programming is "off-base" to some degree, which
causes us to see things and interpret things
incorrectly when we do see them.

Finally, we humans don't like to change our
beliefs about things. We don't like to admit that
we might be wrong in the first place, and we feel
unstable or insecure when we realize that a
fundamental truth we have held all our life is
incorrect.

Lump all of this together, and you have moms
who teach their sons the "proper" way to act and
men who have NO IDEA how to be successful with
women... and then women who REALLY get upset when
you actually start teaching men what WORKS to
attract women (for more evidence of this, just
read some of these newsletters I'm sending you!)

Wow, I'm really going on an unusually
intellectual rant today! Nice. This is making me
feel pretty smart... I think I'll keep it up...

So, what's all this information good for?

Well, to start off, I think that it's important
in life to continually question YOUR OWN beliefs
about how things work and what is possible.

I think it's also good to constantly question
your LIMITING beliefs.

Unfortunately, most people do the opposite...
they question their ability to succeed and they
doubt their own ability to get what they want.

Most people constantly "self-sabotage"
themselves.

If instead, you question your LIMITATIONS and
your LIMITING BELIEFS, and you constantly look
with your own eyes to see if there's something
going on that nobody mentioned to you, then you'll
begin to see things that will blow your mind.

It took me about 4 or 5 years to realize that
ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE. But as soon as I say
it, you can immediately get what I'm talking
about, and maybe even have a profound realization
that will lead to success.

The phrase "Attraction Isn't A Choice" makes
you have the "ah ha" that you can't make a woman
feel attraction for you by CONVINCING her... so
you STOP.

Now, I didn't figure this out by having someone
TELL it to me. I figured it out by questioning the
things I was hearing, and by following my own
intuition that there was a SOLUTION to this puzzle
called "women and dating".

So, here's a "home work" assignment for you:

1 - Write down all of the things that SHOULD work
when it comes to making women feel attracted to
you. This might include buying gifts and food,
giving constant compliments, and acting "nice".

2 - Write down your own personal experience of
what ACTUALLY HAPPENS when you do these "socially
correct things that mom taught you" with women.

3 - Pretend for a moment that everything you've
been taught about women is wrong. Furthermore,
pretend that women are actually wired in REVERSE.
If this were true, what kinds of things would
result in a woman feeling ATTRACTION for a man?

Does this open up some new possibilities for
you?

I invite you to question "common sense" and
"what your mother taught you" about women.

I also invite you to come and learn some of the
VERY ILLOGICAL, YET INCREDIBLY POWERFUL techniques
that I've learned, developed, refined, and
described in my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD
program.

The ideas that I've just discussed are part of
what I consider to be the "Inner Game" of dating
success.

Most guys spend almost NO time working on their
Inner Game... instead, they spend time learning
things like "pick up lines" and other almost
USELESS stuff.

If you don't have your "Inner Game" together,
you'll never be effective with "techniques and
tricks".

In my Advanced Dating Techniques program, I
spend several HOURS teaching you one Inner Game
technique after another... showing you how to
overcome fear, improve your self image and self
esteem... and get past limiting beliefs that stop
you from even TRYING to meet women.

If you're like me, and you've had a lot of
negative programming earlier in life, then you
MUST get that stuff handled. It's not going to
handle itself... YOU have to do it.

And this program will show you EXACTLY how.

Oh... and it will also teach you TONS of great
"in the field" techniques for approaching women,
starting conversations, getting dates, meeting
women online, and taking things to a "physical"
level smoothly and easily... without rejection.

Not too long ago I put up a bunch of new sample
video clips... and you should go watch them right
now. They're here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AdvancedSeries

And if you haven't downloaded your copy of my
online eBook, "Double Your Dating", then you need
to go and do that RIGHT NOW. You can download it
and be reading it in just a few minutes from now.
Just go here:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

Is "Romance" Attractive To Women?

You've probably noticed that I don't talk about
the idea of "romance" very often.

There's a good reason for this.

I think that most guys use romance in
completely the wrong way, and in the process screw
up their chances with the woman that they are
interested in.

I'm going to take some time here to talk about
my personal perspective on romance, how it is
misused, and how to use it to really make a woman
feel attracted to you.

Most guys make one of two main mistakes when
trying to be "romantic":

1) They try to use romance to CREATE attraction.

2) They use TOO MUCH romance, thinking that more
must be better.

Let me ask you this... What does romance mean
to you?

I'm serious. Think about it for a minute.

Does romance mean gifts and flower?

Does it mean fancy dinners?

Does it mean candles and soft music?

To me, romance is about showing a softer side
of yourself... a more thoughtful side... in a way
that is meant to INCREASE the woman's attraction
for you.

Like I just mentioned, most guys either try to
use romance to CREATE attraction, or they do too
many things in an attempt to "be romantic", and
the effect is lost.

Here's a quiz:

In general, would a woman think you were more
romantic if you:

1) Brought her red roses every time you saw her.

2) Brought her one flower the fourth time you saw
her, but it was her favorite flower, in her
favorite color.

...???

Here's another one...

In general, would a woman think you were more
romantic if you:

1) Took her to a fancy dinner every time you saw
her.

2) Didn't take her to dinner, but one night cooked
her a favorite dish that your mom taught you and
told her the story of how it came to be a family
favorite?

Do you see where I'm going with these examples?

"Romance" is all about the context of the
situation. In other words, little things that are
thoughtful, used once in awhile will make FAR more
of an impact than trying to do everything you
possibly can all the time.

Have you ever seen a T. V. show or movie with a
girl holding a flower, pulling off each petal one
at a time and saying, "He loves me, he loves me
not"?

This is a famous cliche... even Madonna does it
in her old "Truth or Dare" movie.

What's going on here? And why is it now such a
famous idea that it is almost universally known?

Because it strikes a chord inside of women
everywhere! Every woman can relate to the idea of
thinking about a man and wondering if he's
thinking about her.

Pulling petals off of a flower and saying, "He
loves me, he loves me not", is just another way of
saying, "I can't stop thinking about this guy and
I'm going to keep thinking about him until I know
how he feels."

As you know, if you've read past newsletters
and/or my ebook, I think that it's important to
CREATE this kind of situation as much as humanly
possible.

Now, here's where romance fits into the
puzzle... If you're doing things that you consider
to be "romantic" all the time, then she has
nothing to wonder about... nothing to think
about... there is no challenge or mystery at all.

On the other hand, if you use romance more
carefully and keep her on the edge of her seat, so
to speak, then a small romantic gesture will cause
her to feel GREAT feelings of attraction inside...
and cause her to work even harder to get and keep
your attention - BECAUSE SHE'LL TRY HARDER TO GET
MORE OUT OF THIS ROMANTIC SIDE OF YOU!

So what are some things you can do, that women
see as romantic, without going overboard?

Well, if you want to do the typical things like
flowers, gifts, music, poetry, etc. then do as I
said earlier: Use them VERY infrequently. Tease
her, bust on her, treat her like a bratty little
sister most of the time, then out of nowhere do
something thoughtful. But make sure to stay cool
when the emotional reaction comes!

She's probably going to be very happy and want
to know "where that came from." Just tell her that
you were thinking about her and move on to the
next topic. Don't get all mushy, dude.

By the way, if you've gone out with a woman 47
times, and you don't know if she likes you, and
you're now thinking, "Oh, hey... great idea! I'll
buy her a flower and she'll feel attracted to
me..." then get a new idea.

Romance isn't a way to make a woman feel
attracted to you.

Romance is a way to AMPLIFY attraction that is
already happening.

Read that last part again... DON'T TRY TO MAKE
A WOMAN FEEL ATTRACTED TO YOU WITH ROMANCE!

Attraction is created by factors other than
gifts, dinners, flowers, etc.

If she's not feeling attracted to you, then
showing her that you're attracted to her probably
isn't going to change it... in fact, it may just
push her away.

I know, I know... you once heard about a guy
who pursued a woman for 9 years until she finally
gave in and married him. Well, that might work,
but I don't have 9 years (unless it's Cindy
Crawford... yeah, I know she's like 50, but she's
STILL hot).

Earlier I mentioned a couple of great ideas.
You can cook her a special meal that has
meaning... and tell the story behind it. Stories
are romantic, especially if the story contains a
love story.

And small gifts can be romantic as well (I
don't like big gifts because they change the
dynamic of the relationship and can create all
kinds of feelings that it's a trade of affection
for money, etc.).

If you pay attention, a woman will mention
something that she really likes. It could be a
kind of flower, a kind of music, an author, etc.
If you want to be romantic (after you know that
she's attracted to you) you can get something
thoughtful then write a card that says, "I was
thinking about you, and I found this... thought
you would like it. Kiss Kiss."

Use romance as the spice, and not the main
dish. Use it to amplify, not as your main
strategy.

Romance combined with the techniques that I
teach is a VERY powerful combination.

QUICK NOTE: One of the most "romantic" things
you can possibly do is learn how to communicate
with women on a "sexual" level. There's nothing as
powerful as using subtle communication to put a
woman into a VERY romantic mood. If you'd like to
learn more about how to do this, then make sure
you go check THIS out:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/SexualCommunication


HOW TO CREATE A SETTING THAT AUTOMATICALLY CREATES
AND AMPLIFIES ATTRACTION...

We just talked about how most guys either have
no clue about romance, or they use it too much...
which screws up everything for them.

There is one aspect of romance that I have
found very useful to know more about and use. It's
the concept of how to create a SETTING that will
create more of a feeling of attraction inside of
the woman that you are with.

WARNING: What I'm about to share with you is
not a magic bullet. It's no substitute for a
cocky, funny personality and great skills. Using
this alone will not make you successful with
women.

With that said... I've found that there are a
few things you can do in your immediate
environment to "accelerate the mood", so to speak,
when you are with a woman.

Women have very active senses... usually much
more so than men.

If you have already sparked the attraction
between you and her, introducing certain sensory
stimulus will usually increase the attraction, and
can lead to a more, shall we say "physical"
demonstration of that attraction.

OK, let's say that you've had a fun night out
with your girl (and of course, because you read
Double Your Dating you knew where to take her that
was fun and inexpensive) and you're back at your
place. (Of course, she came inside because you
learned how to get her to come in from the book
too... right?)

And then you use the Kiss Test, which you
learned when you visited my web site... and you've
just kissed for the first time. Now what?

Well, most guys make the HUGE mistake of trying
to grope the poor girl... which, of course leads
to the inevitable "I think that we're moving a
little fast. Let's take things slower."
(Translation: "None for you tonight, and if you
try that again, none for you anytime in the next
10 dates.")

Instead, try this:

After that first kiss, pull back and look into
her eyes and say, "Yum." Then stand up and say,
"Let me see if I can do something about this
setting" in a fun, smooth, kind-of suspenseful
tone of voice.

Here's the recipe:

1) A few candles

2) Some incense

3) A glass of wine (if you both drink and are of
legal age)

4) Sade's - Greatest Hits on low

I know it sounds simple, but let me explain the
recipe now that you know the ingredients.

Remember the formula "Two steps forward, one
step back" that I often talk about? Mix up these
ingredients with that concept... and VIOLA! More
and MORE AND MORE attraction.

You probably don't need to learn how to light
candles, open wine, and play music. If you do,
refer to the instructions that come with the
products.

I personally like to introduce these as great
ways to interrupt the kissing (and whatever else
is going on).

Try this:

1) Kiss Kiss

2) "Let me see if I can do something about this
setting"

3) Light candles and incense, lower lighting

4) Kiss Kiss

5) Open wine and put on 'Sade'

6) Kiss Kiss

7) Watch out... because something good is about to
happen.

Here's what's going on in her mind:

"Oh, we're kissing. I'd better not let this go
too far."

"What? Why did he stop kissing me? Oh, candles.
I love candles..."

"Wow, this is turning into a make-out session,
maybe I'd better put on the brakes."

"What? Why did he stop again?"

"Ohhh, I LOVE 'Sade'. Her voice is so sexy. And
this wine is nice. Hmm, I wonder why he isn't
trying to jump my bones. Maybe he doesn't think
I'm a good kisser. Maybe he changed his mind. Well
I'm not going to let that happen. I'll show
him..."

Do you get it?

By simultaneously creating tension while making
the setting more and more 'romantic', you will
stir up her ATTRACTION towards you and make her be
the one who ultimately gets so worked up that she
can't help but have you.

Nice.

Of course there are many other things you can
do that are romantic. Like sprinkling rose petals
on the bed, pulling out some Godiva chocolate, or
lighting up the fire and grabbing a blankie (make
sure you don't bring out your teddy-bear from when
you were a kid... that might not go over too
well).

It's really up to you.

The key is to use these things sparingly, and
use them with the concepts that you've already
learned to AMPLIFY THE ATTRACTION that you've
already created with your COMMUNICATION.

So remember, use these things with women who
are ALREADY feeling the attraction, not to create
it!

So... you like what you're hearing?

So... you want to learn more?

So... you want to learn how to take control of
this entire area of romance and sexuality with
women?

My newest program is called "Power Sexuality".

I waited a long time to create this program. It
was an intense project.

After several years of teaching guys how to be
more successful with women and dating, I realized
that there was a kind of "root problem" that was
at the heart of many challenges men face.

Some men will describe this problem as a lack
of "Sexual Confidence".

And it's more than just not knowing what to do
in the bedroom.

It's about learning to get in touch with that
part of yourself that's been "pushed down" for so
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If you would like to learn more about how to be
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And if you still haven't downloaded your copy
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Talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

David D.