***QUESTION***
Hey David,
I just wanted to tell you that your a really smart
man. Your research has paid off and it is the best
thing that has ever come into my life. At first i
really did not get it but after i read your
newsletters it became crystal clear. I your
techniques on my ex's and my friends and it works
like a charm, my phones have never been so busy
before. Now for my question, in your last news
letter a guy mentioned giving a girl "the wrinkled
eyebrow". What is that and why does it work. Also
im not too good at body language so could you also
address that. Im looking forward to downloading
your ebook and buying your book.
THANKS ALOT FOR YOUR GENEROSITY WITH THIS
INFORMATION
W.C BRONX, N.Y
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You're welcome for the information.
And NICE!
I'm glad to hear that you're practicing on
everyone.
One of the great "extra" benefits that you get
from using the concepts that you're learning here
is that you'll have more FUN in your "regular"
relationships... and in business.
To answer your question about "The Wrinkled
Brow" that was mentioned in a previous
newsletter...
Find a picture of Marlon Brando on the cover of
"A Streetcar Named Desire" or a picture of Colin
Farrell.
Notice the look that these guys have on their
faces.
There's something about this particular look
that says "I'm a man. I'm a BAD BOY. I'm sexy, and
I know it...."
This is a deep topic. And it's something that I
go into detail about in my Advanced Dating
Techniques program.
The long-and-short-of-it is that men can do
things that women find "sexy" and this is one of
them. You don't have to be naturally "handsome"
for women to find you "sexy." Again, this is a
deep topic, but that's the basic idea.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dave, hey my name is Z and do i have a success
story for you.
I'm a guy who got the girls, but only the ones
that weren't what i wanted, and i could never find
out how to get the ones that i wanted, that was,
until i decided to try your program. i mean i
practiced the "get the e-mail, not the number"
kind of thing for days until this one pool party.
i went up to a girl and started talking to her for
a few minutes, well to make a long story short, I
GOT A PHONE NUMBER AND E_MAIL ADDRESS!!!! and then
another and another tell i finally left with
FOUR!!! thanks a lot! keep sending me info and i
WILL read it!!!
Z
>>>MY COMMENTS:
LOL... yeah, it's fun to learn how to start
meeting and getting emails/numbers from the kinds
of girls that you REALLY want... isn't it?
I can remember back a few years when I would
have thought it would be IMPOSSIBLE to get FOUR
emails and numbers from women in one night.
LOL... now 4 or 5 is just no big deal.
Thanks for the story. It really helps to know
that other guys are out there doing it.
***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***
i received many of ur emails, and i'm not a guy,
I'm a lady.
i found a lot of what u wrote is against the
nature of a normal relation between a man and a
woman, and many things that u gave as an advice
would turn any woman off so soon.
for example, i like flowers and i like going out
to nice places and u wrote in ur advices that it
doesn't matter to a woman where do u take her. and
i'm saying it does matter at least in the first
few dates, the reason why is not because i like
him to pay..but cuz a man has to show her that he
would do anything for her, and he loves to please
her ..and that is the most attractive thing to a
woman.it is the normal relation between a man and
a woman.. A man should chase the woman not the
opposite!! And it's definitely against femininity
to chase a man. this is just an example.
bye
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OK, I'm guessing that English isn't your first
language... at least I hope not.
But what you are saying here is clear.
You're basically saying that a man should
"court" a woman by taking her out to nice places
and paying for everything.
You also say that "a man should chase the
woman" and "a man has to show her that he would do
anything to please her".
Let's talk about these things a little bit...
First off, I get where you're coming from.
I used to act this way myself.
When I met a girl that I liked, I'd call her a
lot, take her to dinner, and chase after her.
What I never could understand is why, when I
acted this way, women tended to RUN AWAY from
me... instead of towards me. They would "play hard
to get", not seem very interested, and often only
liked me as a "friend."
Later, as I began studying guys who were
"naturally" successful with women and dating, I
found something VERY interesting...
I found that most of the guys I met who were
UNUSUALLY successful at attracting women DID NOT
CHASE the women.
In fact, if anything, they were the ones who
were "playing hard to get."
Of course, this confused me at first.
But what I've realized since is that when a man
"courts" a woman, he's hinting that he's
interested in a "long-term relationship"... or
even marriage.
If the woman is also interested in marriage,
what does she usually do?
Right, she turns up the heat, and makes the man
REALLY work hard to "get her."
I mean, how else can she "be sure" that he's
serious?
On the other hand, if a man DOES NOT do all of
these typical "courtship" things, it changes
everything.
It's often confusing to a woman.
And if the woman knows that the man is also
able to attract OTHER women, it creates a
CHALLENGE in her mind.
This is why men who are dating several women
are usually more interesting to women than men who
have no dates.
Is my advice perfect, 100% of the time?
No way.
I teach guys how to be successful in the dating
world, not in the marriage world.
If a guy really likes a woman, and he's
interested in a "long-term relationship", then the
rules change a bit (but not that much).
Most women SAY that they want a man to chase
them. But when it comes to the REAL WORLD, it
usually doesn't play out this way.
If you chase a woman, she will usually run.
***QUESTION***
What's up Dave?
Cocky/funny and the friendship frame work well.
However, I do have one question. In your e-book,
you state that you should always keep your
composure. But you also state, in your bonus book
on the 8 different personality types, that the
"bad boy" personality is the most magnetic to
women; that there's nothing more thrilling than a
"bad boy." And, in almost all cases, "bad boys" do
not keep their composure; they're notorious for
throwing temper tantrums, yet they are still so
attractive to women. What's your take on this?
>>>MY COMMENTS:
This is a FANTASTIC question.
Let's talk about "Bad Boys."
I personally believe that women are ATTRACTED
to "Bad Boys" on a "subconscious" level.
You'll have to get my Advanced Series if you
want a full explanation. It takes hours.
But, the point is that Bad Boys have aspects to
their personalities that women find SEXY.
Unfortunately, Bad Boys are often ABUSIVE as
well.
I don't like abuse, and I don't like to be
abusive.
In fact, I dislike MEAN people and MEAN
BEHAVIOR more than just about anything.
I may bust balls and tease a lot, but
underneath it all I'm always just teasing, or
trying to help.
One of the things that never sat well with me
was the idea that I had to do EVERYTHING that a
Bad Boy does in order to have women dig me.
Well, the good news is that I've realized that
it's very possible (and can be fun) to take some
of the great things that Bad Boys do to attract
women... and learn them...WITHOUT the abuse.
You probably see where I'm going here.
YES, Bad Boys often throw tantrums and "lose
their composure." This is true.
But, I think that throwing tantrums, yelling at
women, and being physically abusive to women are
all horrible.
They're just not good.
On the other hand, keeping your COMPOSURE is
the "right way" to deal with many situations with
women.
When you keep your composure, you actually show
that you're EVEN STRONGER than if you were to get
upset.
I mean, if you WANT to get upset, feel free.
Maybe we'll see you on the next Springer
rerun...
But COMPOSURE is a much better way. Try it,
you'll like it.
By the way, if you want to learn the secret of
keeping your composure AND triggering massive
attraction the way a BAD BOY would, then go and
check THIS out. It's the best way to learn...
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/SexualCommunication
***QUESTION***
O Lord Dave,
I bow down to thee and all thy wisdom. Ahhhh man,
you have changed my life. This isn't a success
story about one girl, because I think that that
would be too narrow minded. Instead, I just want
to tell you, and all of your readers how much your
material can change a persons life for the better.
I used to be a "nice guy", and I honestly believed
that I had my personality sorted, and that women
must have been turned off by something else. But
nothing seemed to be working for me. So when I
came across your stuff, I thought, "hey, it can't
hurt, if nothing else is working, then what have I
got to lose". And wow man, you completely blew me
away, Both your e-book and CD series are amazing.
Now I have no problem with women, and I've found
myself becoming far more selective, which brings
me on to my question.
I'm seeing this one lady at the moment, She's not
what you would normally call a hot woman, probably
about 5 on the scale, but out of all the 9's and
10's who I've met, I prefer her company, and I
have more fun with her. I've been using all of
your stuff, and it seems to be working, again. But
now she wants to have a serious talk with me.
We've kinda been more friends who see each other
up till now, and I don't know whether she wants to
just be friends, or more than that. When we meet,
I'm going to say that I don't want a full blown
relationship, but that I still want to be more
than friends. Is this ok, or should I be doing
something else.
Thank you Lord Dave
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OK, cool it with the "Lord Dave" stuff.
Maybe "Sir Dave", or even "Master Dave"... but
no Lord Dave.
You know, if I may say so myself, you sound
kind of like a CHICK... lol.
You're all freaked because a girl wants to have
a "serious talk" with you, and you don't know if
she just wants to be friends... lol.
Dude, come here so I can he-bitch-man-slap you.
You're saying this whole thing about "I have
more fun with her, even though she's only a 5"
like it's a BAD thing.
Look man, I have some bad news for you...
If you enjoy your time with her, then do what
you want. It doesn't matter if she's a "10." A
woman who you actually enjoy spending time with
is a great thing.
And, why are you asking me if it's OK to tell
her the truth about how you feel?
You're grown up now.
You can do it.
I think you're going to be OK.
***COMMENT***
She'll accept ass-kissing from a guy that she
likes... but only up to a point. Once you cross
the ass-kiss of no return, it's all over. And you
won't even see it coming.
Dave, I have seen your DVDs, bought your material
--I am a huge fan--a NY lawyer turned
musician/mathematician.
This is brilliant advice, and so baldly and well
put. I am in the 6th year of a "long-distance"
relationship-- not until I began to follow some of
your core principals did I start to regain some of
the power in my relationship.
You are totally right--you cannot let down,
because of the 2 trillion times a day these
gorgeous women are approached (my girlfriend and
I were hysterical when on the CD Bigger and
Blacker by Chris Rock about the 'want some d***?'
behind every male micro-move).
And one more thing--the blonde thing. My God. I
always fell for brunettes, very good looking ones
I have gone out with. But going out with a
Princess Di blonde is an experience that verifies
you Dave in the biggest way. They are treated like
absolute royalty/potential sex material
*everywhere they encounter men*--and the blondes
are dumb because they don't even realize how
outrageously 'special' the attention they get is,
and number two, and more along the Dave D. lines,
the men don't realize that when they Offer some
D***, they are one (more of the) million--almost
as bad as Sperm Wars.
Keep up the outstanding work, J NYC
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, thank you...
I think.
You're right. I once met a topless dancer that
told me that when she dyed her hair blonde she
QUADRUPLED the money that she made.
Go figure.
I like brunettes myself.
Whatever.
And, you're also right about the fact that most
men don't even realize that when they come across
one of these women, and offer themselves up, that
it makes them "average" in her eyes, and instantly
uninteresting.
Thanks for the email.
***QUESTION***
David,
I know I've said it before in emails, but thanks
so much for your DVD advanced series. Just the
basics about the psychology and biology of
attraction on the first 2 discs was enough to kick
my confidence into overdrive, and now that I'm
putting the entire program into practice, the
results are astounding and I honestly never
thought my life could be like this. I've gone from
wanting a girlfriend, to specifically NOT wanting
a girlfriend because I'm having way too much fun
with this stuff!
My question is this - now that I can walk into a
bar or other setting and get positive responses
from the ultra-hot, model-type women who I didn't
even bother with only a few months ago because I
assumed they only date millionaires, those are the
only kinds of women I want. Now that I've
experienced them it's hard to go back to the
above-average type women I previously was very
attracted to. (The ironic part is the ultra-hot
women respond even better to your material than
regular women who tend to get insecure over it).
However, would it be a good idea to keep going out
with some "regular" women for practice? They don't
interest me much anymore but I feel like I should
hang out with some to practice my C&F rather than
use the really hot chicks for my "trial and error"
experimentation. Thanks again for all your info -
it's worth a thousand times the price!
FR
>>>MY COMMENTS:
WOW.
You are talking about a HUGE shift here.
Isn't it AMAZING when you go from "wanting and
needing" a girlfriend to NOT wanting one because
life is great without one?
Of course, this usually comes full circle
eventually and makes you want a GREAT girlfriend.
And, of course, when you get to that point
you're usually good enough with women and have
enough options to find a really GREAT one.
LOL... your question is GREAT.
Now that you have the ability to approach the
"ultra-hot" women, should you "practice" on
"regular" women.
You're such a MAN!
LOL...
Sounds like a tough situation you're in.
I'd say this...
Approach all the HOT ones first.
If you run out, then move on to "regular" women
for "practice."
You're cracking me up over here.
I personally practice on just about every woman
I meet.
Trial and error is a natural part of
development. And meeting women is no different.
Just make sure you don't take it personally
when something doesn't work out, or if you make a
mistake.
Remember, over 3,000 women turn 21 in the
U.S.A. ALONE every DAY. If something doesn't work
out with one, there will be another... and
another...
Oh, and you're right... the things I'm teaching
work INCREDIBLY well with "ultra hot" women. In
fact, I have to agree that these concepts work
BEST with women who are unusually attractive.
Thanks for the email.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Dear Dave,
It was roughly a year ago that I purchased your
book and began with the e-mails. I have to say
that I was at one time quite good with women, or
maybe just "lucky." Over time I somehow became
chief of the wusses over several different girls.
I don't even want to verbalize how badly I sucked
at attracting women during those times. I don't
know how it happened, but out of the blue it
seemed I couldn't pull a piece of a@# to save my
life. After a year of CONSTANT practice and
EXTREME de-wussification, I feel that I am on the
long road to recovery.
Last night I experienced the volume knob principle
on a level I've never thought was possible. Over
the course of several hours (six, not counting
sleeping the night in her bed), from the bar, to
the grocery store, to her place, to christening
four different rooms in her house, I found that
everything without a doubt that you have taught in
your book is absolute and complete truth. I was
literally amazed at her reactions and I was able
to calmly predict and calculate my next moves. I
turned her volume knob up so slowly and so subtly,
that she literally had to go outside for fresh air
on two occasions before we could continue. Some
of the best screams and moans I've ever heard. It
was amazing to watch a woman convince herself that
even though we just met that day, that her true
desire was to give herself over to me completely.
Then after satisfying her to a level that I don't
think she has ever experienced (she called the
evening divine), I can now repeat this process
with her or move on to others, and still have her.
Amazing!
One thing that you may find interesting, this
woman is super-feminist all the way. She just
finished a book on "The Power of Women" (her
fourth book). It was great watching her hand it
ALL over to ME in one evening. Thanks Dave, I
can't wait get your Advanced Series.
M, North Carolina
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Very nice!
I get a lot of emails from guys who USED TO BE
good with women, but for some reason have turned
into WUSSBAGS.
It's a sad story, really.
It just goes to show you that even if you KNOW
how to be successful with women, and HAVE BEEN
successful with women, you can still "lose the
touch".
I think a lot of guys who have never had much
success with women have a "secret excuse" for not
being successful.
It's always something.
They assume that some guys just have a special
certain something that women want.
But, the funny thing is that even if you ARE
successful with women, it doesn't guarantee that
you will be in the future. Even if you have that
"certain something", you can lose it by acting
like a Wuss.
Of course, once you "get it", and understand
those little things that are always happening with
women... and learn how to do "illogical" things
that make women feel that amazing emotion called
ATTRACTION... everything changes.
I've personally gone from not being able to
even TALK to a woman I don't know to being able to
approach any woman in any situation and have a
VERY HIGH chance of getting a date with her... and
of course more, if I want.
If you're reading this right now, and saying to
yourself "I would really like to know how he does
that", then I'd like to share the secrets with
you.
And, I'd like to do it at ZERO RISK to you.
I want you to order a copy of my Advanced
Dating Techniques CD/DVD Program.
Go through the WHOLE THING.
TRY some of the things you learn.
I absolutely guarantee that you will start to
see IMMEDIATE results. Women will respond to you
differently because you will see things from a new
perspective.
You'll have a special pair of "3-D" glasses
that most men don't have... and that women LOVE.
Oh, and the best part is that I will send it to
you to check out at MY risk...
It's taken me a long time to figure all of this
stuff out, and it took a big investment in time
and money to make this program. It's the best
there is, and it will give you an advantage that
you will not believe.
You can check it out here:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AdvancedSeries
...and, if you would like to learn the basics
of how to be successful with women and dating, you
need to go download a copy of my online eBook
"Double Your Dating." It, and the three bonus
booklets that come along with it, are a killer
introduction to my concepts and techniques. You
can read about it, plus find some samples
here:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
Monday, February 15, 2010
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
"Program" Yourself To Succeed With Women
Why most men "freeze" with women - and what you
can do to succeed where other guys fail - go here:
In a moment, I'm going to share how you can
literally "program" yourself to succeed with women
- so you AUTOMATICALLY do and say the right things
in every situation with women.
Best of all, you won't even have to THINK about
what you're doing...
But first, let me ask you this:
Have you ever been in an important situation with
a woman, but you didn't know what to do next?
Or you knew what you should do, but you couldn't
get yourself to DO IT?
Maybe you see a woman you'd like to meet, but you
don't know what to say to start the conversion.
Or you're talking to a female friend of yours, but
you don't know what to do to become MORE than
"just friends."
Or here's another one:
Have you ever read somewhere what you're supposed
to do to attract a woman, but in the moment, you
freeze and you can't "execute" on what you
learned?
I know, it's frustrating...
And what makes situations like these worse - is
that it's not until AFTER the opportunity has
passed that you get a grip and come back to your
senses...
But by then, of course, it's too late.
Moments like these prove that "learning"
something... and APPLYING it in the real world...
are two completely different things.
You may not know this, but a very good friend of
mine happens to be one of the world's leading
experts on LEARNING.
He has a formula for learning that is unique...
I've never seen anyone explain it quite like he
does, and I think it's every profound.
Here's his formula:
LEARNING = BEHAVIOR CHANGE.
Simple, I know, but he's one of the world's
leaders in learning technologies... and this is
what he boils it all down to...
Learning is about changing behavior.
If you don't change your behavior, then you
haven't really learned.
You can read DOZENS of books on a topic... but
unless you see a concrete change in your
behavior... YOU HAVEN'T LEARNED.
And get this:
The smarter and more educated you are, the more
frustrating this is.
Here in the U.S., we grow up in a culture where
the education system focuses on "grades".
Not practical results, but GRADES.
Then we get out in the real world, and we see that
the people who are massively successful are
typically NOT the ones who were obsessed with
getting good grades.
They were focused on BEHAVIOR CHANGE... on
RESULTS.
Think of all the billionaires who are college drop
outs...
Bill Gates probably tops the list... but there are
plenty of others.
The world is full of examples of extremely
successfully people who executed on my friend's
formula for learning.
They know the "proof is in the pudding," or said
another way, "the proof is in your new behavior...
in the ACTION you take."
After witnessing this for myself over and over, I
decided I would take this lesson and create an
entire program around it, on how to be successful
with women and dating.
And that's exactly what I did.
Because it's not enough to STUDY how to be
successful with women... unless you can EXECUTE in
the moment.
After a ton of thought and preparation, I finished
a program that is designed to help you literally
"program" and "re-wire" yourself to AUTOMATICALLY
change your behavior... so you do and say the
right things, at the right times, with the women
in your life.
The program is called "The 77 Laws Of Success With
Women & Dating" DVD Video Program.
This program contains THE BEST concepts, ideas,
and techniques from my previous programs - boiled
down and presented in an "affirmation style" that
internalizes these laws of success with women in
you QUICKLY and EASILY.
It's a compilation of the biggest and most
important lessons I've learned over the last 10
years of learning how to attract women for myself,
and over the last 5+ years of teaching other men
to do the same.
If you're new to my materials, this program will
give you an eye-opening JUMPSTART into the world
of what REALLY works with women in a VERY short
amount of time.
If you're familiar with my materials, use this
program as a refresher to pound the most
important lessons in your head... and keep your
game on track.
It's the best of my 10 years of research in
this area, put together in a condensed, rapid-fire
manner that is designed to subconsciously "burn"
them into your brain... making the lessons a
permanent part of WHO YOU ARE.
I'm very proud of this program, and I am
confident you'll get INSTANT RESULTS by going
through it, no matter what stage of the game you
are in with the ladies.
I put together a special preview video clip for
you - so you could get a "sneak peak" of what
you'll get if you decide to order the program.
Watch the video here:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/77LAWS
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your friend,
David D.
can do to succeed where other guys fail - go here:
In a moment, I'm going to share how you can
literally "program" yourself to succeed with women
- so you AUTOMATICALLY do and say the right things
in every situation with women.
Best of all, you won't even have to THINK about
what you're doing...
But first, let me ask you this:
Have you ever been in an important situation with
a woman, but you didn't know what to do next?
Or you knew what you should do, but you couldn't
get yourself to DO IT?
Maybe you see a woman you'd like to meet, but you
don't know what to say to start the conversion.
Or you're talking to a female friend of yours, but
you don't know what to do to become MORE than
"just friends."
Or here's another one:
Have you ever read somewhere what you're supposed
to do to attract a woman, but in the moment, you
freeze and you can't "execute" on what you
learned?
I know, it's frustrating...
And what makes situations like these worse - is
that it's not until AFTER the opportunity has
passed that you get a grip and come back to your
senses...
But by then, of course, it's too late.
Moments like these prove that "learning"
something... and APPLYING it in the real world...
are two completely different things.
You may not know this, but a very good friend of
mine happens to be one of the world's leading
experts on LEARNING.
He has a formula for learning that is unique...
I've never seen anyone explain it quite like he
does, and I think it's every profound.
Here's his formula:
LEARNING = BEHAVIOR CHANGE.
Simple, I know, but he's one of the world's
leaders in learning technologies... and this is
what he boils it all down to...
Learning is about changing behavior.
If you don't change your behavior, then you
haven't really learned.
You can read DOZENS of books on a topic... but
unless you see a concrete change in your
behavior... YOU HAVEN'T LEARNED.
And get this:
The smarter and more educated you are, the more
frustrating this is.
Here in the U.S., we grow up in a culture where
the education system focuses on "grades".
Not practical results, but GRADES.
Then we get out in the real world, and we see that
the people who are massively successful are
typically NOT the ones who were obsessed with
getting good grades.
They were focused on BEHAVIOR CHANGE... on
RESULTS.
Think of all the billionaires who are college drop
outs...
Bill Gates probably tops the list... but there are
plenty of others.
The world is full of examples of extremely
successfully people who executed on my friend's
formula for learning.
They know the "proof is in the pudding," or said
another way, "the proof is in your new behavior...
in the ACTION you take."
After witnessing this for myself over and over, I
decided I would take this lesson and create an
entire program around it, on how to be successful
with women and dating.
And that's exactly what I did.
Because it's not enough to STUDY how to be
successful with women... unless you can EXECUTE in
the moment.
After a ton of thought and preparation, I finished
a program that is designed to help you literally
"program" and "re-wire" yourself to AUTOMATICALLY
change your behavior... so you do and say the
right things, at the right times, with the women
in your life.
The program is called "The 77 Laws Of Success With
Women & Dating" DVD Video Program.
This program contains THE BEST concepts, ideas,
and techniques from my previous programs - boiled
down and presented in an "affirmation style" that
internalizes these laws of success with women in
you QUICKLY and EASILY.
It's a compilation of the biggest and most
important lessons I've learned over the last 10
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Your friend,
David D.
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Key Words Women Say When Attracted
OK, so GET THIS...
I'm reading through some of the bazillion
emails I get every week, and I come across one of
the best emails that I've read in a LONG time.
Are you ready for the interesting part?
It's from a MARRIED GUY.
Yep, you read that right. He's married.
He reads the newsletters and uses the things he
learns to improve his marriage. Go figure.
This guy was able to explain in a few
paragraphs a concept and technique that I
personally use, but have been unable to actually
explain and verbalize well.
I wish I would have written what you're about
to read, but I didn't (but I'm still a cool guy
because I wrote what came before and after it).
Check this out...
***Conversation Technique***
Dave,
I'm still having great success with a rekindled
marriage using you're Tips on my wife. Thanks a
million. Listen, I keep reading over and over in
the MailBags guys wanting to know how to start,
then keep a conversation going with women. I work
for a major oil company and have been through many
of there training courses on dealing with people.
One particularly interesting course was on
"Information Seeking". For this we first practiced
picking up on "Key words or phrases" the subject
said. For instance, I'll try and give an example
using c&f even though you wouldn't use this
professionally on the job. Lets say you see this
great looking chick on the street and you tell
her, "That's an unusual looking dress you're
wearing. Was that made out of a shower curtain?"
She says, "Your mean! No, I bought this from the
Old Navy store." Key Words: Old Navy. "Oh, so
you're in the Navy, huh?" "No silly. You know, the
big store over at the Mall." Key word: Mall. "Oh,
so you like going to the Mall and buying strange
looking dresses do you? Do your girlfriends buy
them also?" "My girlfriends are neat dressers and
my dress is very popular I'll have you know!" Key
phrases: "girlfriends are neat dressers" and
"dress is popular". "Well, if your girlfriends are
neat dressers in a popular dress like you're
wearing then I'm going into the shower curtain
clothing business..." I know, this is a lame
example but the lessons are this.
1) You start a conversation with however you want
then pick out key words or phrases from what the
person says.
2) You repeat them in what you say then listen for
new key words in there next response.
3) You add a little something new into the
conversation REPEATING there words you're using as
Key words or phrases. This tells them you're
listening, even though you're turning things
around to be c/f in this situation.
Once we learned to keep someone talking for 5
minutes, then 15 minutes the company actually
hired total strangers from a job soliciting
company to come and be our subjects. While being
videotaped we had to get the person talking and
keep them talking for 30 minutes. One important
note: If a person brings up something personal or
whatever, they wouldn't have mentioned it if they
didn't want to talk about it. These are great to
Key in on. My subject mentioned she was going
through a divorce and her ex-husband was a total
jerk. I keyed in on this and it's amazing what a
total stranger will tell you once you build a
little rapport. When watching the video you pick
up on mistakes or you see something different you
could have said. You also pick up on Key words and
phases you missed. It just takes a little
practice. This is just one example of how you can
start a conversation and keep it going. Hopefully
it can be of help to you're readers.
JTM Texas
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Awesome.
This is an EXCELLENT description of how to keep
a conversation going, keep it interesting and
unpredictable, and talk about ANYTHING and have it
be fun.
Read it again.
Now, let me sprinkle a little magic dust on
this and tell you how I use this technique
personally.
When I'm having a conversation with a woman,
I'm not just listening for ANY key word... I'm
listening for a particular KIND of key word (or
words).
I'm always on the alert for any words or
phrases that can be twisted, turned around,
misinterpreted, and misconstrued (is that a word?)
in one of a few particular ways...
Namely, in a way that says she's stupid, ditzy,
sexually crazed, or acting suspicious.
For instance, in your example above, you
suggested the following:
"That's an unusual looking dress you're wearing.
Was that made out of a shower curtain?" She says,
"You're mean! No, I bought this from the Old Navy
store." Key Words: Old Navy. "Oh, so you're in the
Navy, huh?" "No silly. You know, the big store
over at the Mall." Key word: Mall. "Oh, so you
like going to the Mall and buying strange looking
dresses do you? Do your girlfriends buy them
also?" "My girlfriends are neat dressers and my
dress is very popular I'll have you know!" Key
phrases: "girlfriends are neat dressers" and
"dress is popular". "Well, if your girlfriends are
neat dressers in a popular dress like you're
wearing then I'm going into the shower curtain
clothing business..."
Good. Nice one.
Now, let's dial it up a little bit...
She says, "No, I bought this from the Old Navy
store..."
Instead of just keying into "Navy" and saying,
"Oh, so you're in the navy, huh?", why not take it
to the next step and actually MAKE FUN of her.
"Oh, so is this what guys used to wear in the
Navy a long time ago... in the OLD Navy?"
Now you're BUSTING on her as well, AND it's
funny.
She says, "No silly. you know, the big store
over at the Mall."
You might try, "What kind of MALL are YOU
shopping at? And do your girlfriends buy dresses
like that one too?"
Again, you're hinting that she has funky taste
and she shops in weird places.
She says, "My girlfriends are neat dressers and
my dress is very popular I'll have you know!"
You could go with, "Oh, you have girlfriends?
You have more than one? Do they all know that you
think of them as a girlfriend? Or is one of them
the special one? By the way, if you have cute
girlfriends, then I think you and I are going to
get along VERY well."
...are you with me here?
What I'm doing is NOT ONLY looking for key
words to latch onto, but I'm ALSO looking for ways
to spin them to make fun, tease, and subtly
suggest various kinds of "racy" topics.
When done in a funny way, it's magic.
My very favorite technique with women is "Cocky
& Funny". If you want to learn to master it, make
sure you go and check THIS out right now:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/CockyComedy
Once upon a time, a guy I know very well went
into a nightclub.
He was talking to a girl at that club for
awhile when she said, "Well, I'm getting tired. I
think it's time for me to go home."
The guy answered "Go HOME?! I just met you. I'm
not going HOME with you!"
She said, "No, I mean I'M going home. I'm
tired."
He shot back, "Maybe you don't hear me. I'm not
going home with you, so don't even ask anymore."
She said, "No, that's not what I'm saying..."
He replied, "And besides, I'm sure my place is
nicer than yours... so if anything, you're coming
home with ME."
This went on and on for about an hour or so.
And you guessed it, she went home with him.
I saw it happen with my own two eyes. Another
off-the-wall (but pretty funny) example of this is
a story that a good friend of mine told me about
one of his friends.
His friend was talking to a girl at a club and
she was talking about what kinds of things she
enjoyed doing in her spare time.
She said, "...I like to go clubbing..."
He came back with, "Oh, like baby seals?"
lol... Now, that might not get a girl to come
home with you, but it's damn funny. Love it.
This technique is GREAT for keeping a
conversation fresh, fun, unpredictable, and FUNNY
(if you know how to do it just right).
Use it.
Right now you're probably thinking to yourself:
"Wow, that's really great. I sure wish there
was a resource available that could show me
hundreds of great ideas like that... so I could
know exactly what to do from when I first meet a
woman to the first date... all the way up until we
get physical and beyond..."
Guess what?
It's right here:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AdvancedSeries
...and it's absolutely JAM PACKED with so many
great, interesting, and useful ideas for meeting
and dating more women, you'll be shaking your head
when you're listening to it. Guaranteed.
...and if you haven't downloaded your copy of
my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then maybe I
haven't mentioned it enough times. You can
download it and be reading it in literally MINUTES
from right now. Go get it:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook
I'll talk to you again soon!
Your Friend,
David D.
I'm reading through some of the bazillion
emails I get every week, and I come across one of
the best emails that I've read in a LONG time.
Are you ready for the interesting part?
It's from a MARRIED GUY.
Yep, you read that right. He's married.
He reads the newsletters and uses the things he
learns to improve his marriage. Go figure.
This guy was able to explain in a few
paragraphs a concept and technique that I
personally use, but have been unable to actually
explain and verbalize well.
I wish I would have written what you're about
to read, but I didn't (but I'm still a cool guy
because I wrote what came before and after it).
Check this out...
***Conversation Technique***
Dave,
I'm still having great success with a rekindled
marriage using you're Tips on my wife. Thanks a
million. Listen, I keep reading over and over in
the MailBags guys wanting to know how to start,
then keep a conversation going with women. I work
for a major oil company and have been through many
of there training courses on dealing with people.
One particularly interesting course was on
"Information Seeking". For this we first practiced
picking up on "Key words or phrases" the subject
said. For instance, I'll try and give an example
using c&f even though you wouldn't use this
professionally on the job. Lets say you see this
great looking chick on the street and you tell
her, "That's an unusual looking dress you're
wearing. Was that made out of a shower curtain?"
She says, "Your mean! No, I bought this from the
Old Navy store." Key Words: Old Navy. "Oh, so
you're in the Navy, huh?" "No silly. You know, the
big store over at the Mall." Key word: Mall. "Oh,
so you like going to the Mall and buying strange
looking dresses do you? Do your girlfriends buy
them also?" "My girlfriends are neat dressers and
my dress is very popular I'll have you know!" Key
phrases: "girlfriends are neat dressers" and
"dress is popular". "Well, if your girlfriends are
neat dressers in a popular dress like you're
wearing then I'm going into the shower curtain
clothing business..." I know, this is a lame
example but the lessons are this.
1) You start a conversation with however you want
then pick out key words or phrases from what the
person says.
2) You repeat them in what you say then listen for
new key words in there next response.
3) You add a little something new into the
conversation REPEATING there words you're using as
Key words or phrases. This tells them you're
listening, even though you're turning things
around to be c/f in this situation.
Once we learned to keep someone talking for 5
minutes, then 15 minutes the company actually
hired total strangers from a job soliciting
company to come and be our subjects. While being
videotaped we had to get the person talking and
keep them talking for 30 minutes. One important
note: If a person brings up something personal or
whatever, they wouldn't have mentioned it if they
didn't want to talk about it. These are great to
Key in on. My subject mentioned she was going
through a divorce and her ex-husband was a total
jerk. I keyed in on this and it's amazing what a
total stranger will tell you once you build a
little rapport. When watching the video you pick
up on mistakes or you see something different you
could have said. You also pick up on Key words and
phases you missed. It just takes a little
practice. This is just one example of how you can
start a conversation and keep it going. Hopefully
it can be of help to you're readers.
JTM Texas
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Awesome.
This is an EXCELLENT description of how to keep
a conversation going, keep it interesting and
unpredictable, and talk about ANYTHING and have it
be fun.
Read it again.
Now, let me sprinkle a little magic dust on
this and tell you how I use this technique
personally.
When I'm having a conversation with a woman,
I'm not just listening for ANY key word... I'm
listening for a particular KIND of key word (or
words).
I'm always on the alert for any words or
phrases that can be twisted, turned around,
misinterpreted, and misconstrued (is that a word?)
in one of a few particular ways...
Namely, in a way that says she's stupid, ditzy,
sexually crazed, or acting suspicious.
For instance, in your example above, you
suggested the following:
"That's an unusual looking dress you're wearing.
Was that made out of a shower curtain?" She says,
"You're mean! No, I bought this from the Old Navy
store." Key Words: Old Navy. "Oh, so you're in the
Navy, huh?" "No silly. You know, the big store
over at the Mall." Key word: Mall. "Oh, so you
like going to the Mall and buying strange looking
dresses do you? Do your girlfriends buy them
also?" "My girlfriends are neat dressers and my
dress is very popular I'll have you know!" Key
phrases: "girlfriends are neat dressers" and
"dress is popular". "Well, if your girlfriends are
neat dressers in a popular dress like you're
wearing then I'm going into the shower curtain
clothing business..."
Good. Nice one.
Now, let's dial it up a little bit...
She says, "No, I bought this from the Old Navy
store..."
Instead of just keying into "Navy" and saying,
"Oh, so you're in the navy, huh?", why not take it
to the next step and actually MAKE FUN of her.
"Oh, so is this what guys used to wear in the
Navy a long time ago... in the OLD Navy?"
Now you're BUSTING on her as well, AND it's
funny.
She says, "No silly. you know, the big store
over at the Mall."
You might try, "What kind of MALL are YOU
shopping at? And do your girlfriends buy dresses
like that one too?"
Again, you're hinting that she has funky taste
and she shops in weird places.
She says, "My girlfriends are neat dressers and
my dress is very popular I'll have you know!"
You could go with, "Oh, you have girlfriends?
You have more than one? Do they all know that you
think of them as a girlfriend? Or is one of them
the special one? By the way, if you have cute
girlfriends, then I think you and I are going to
get along VERY well."
...are you with me here?
What I'm doing is NOT ONLY looking for key
words to latch onto, but I'm ALSO looking for ways
to spin them to make fun, tease, and subtly
suggest various kinds of "racy" topics.
When done in a funny way, it's magic.
My very favorite technique with women is "Cocky
& Funny". If you want to learn to master it, make
sure you go and check THIS out right now:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/CockyComedy
Once upon a time, a guy I know very well went
into a nightclub.
He was talking to a girl at that club for
awhile when she said, "Well, I'm getting tired. I
think it's time for me to go home."
The guy answered "Go HOME?! I just met you. I'm
not going HOME with you!"
She said, "No, I mean I'M going home. I'm
tired."
He shot back, "Maybe you don't hear me. I'm not
going home with you, so don't even ask anymore."
She said, "No, that's not what I'm saying..."
He replied, "And besides, I'm sure my place is
nicer than yours... so if anything, you're coming
home with ME."
This went on and on for about an hour or so.
And you guessed it, she went home with him.
I saw it happen with my own two eyes. Another
off-the-wall (but pretty funny) example of this is
a story that a good friend of mine told me about
one of his friends.
His friend was talking to a girl at a club and
she was talking about what kinds of things she
enjoyed doing in her spare time.
She said, "...I like to go clubbing..."
He came back with, "Oh, like baby seals?"
lol... Now, that might not get a girl to come
home with you, but it's damn funny. Love it.
This technique is GREAT for keeping a
conversation fresh, fun, unpredictable, and FUNNY
(if you know how to do it just right).
Use it.
Right now you're probably thinking to yourself:
"Wow, that's really great. I sure wish there
was a resource available that could show me
hundreds of great ideas like that... so I could
know exactly what to do from when I first meet a
woman to the first date... all the way up until we
get physical and beyond..."
Guess what?
It's right here:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/AdvancedSeries
...and it's absolutely JAM PACKED with so many
great, interesting, and useful ideas for meeting
and dating more women, you'll be shaking your head
when you're listening to it. Guaranteed.
...and if you haven't downloaded your copy of
my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then maybe I
haven't mentioned it enough times. You can
download it and be reading it in literally MINUTES
from right now. Go get it:
http://www.DatingTechniques.com/eBook
I'll talk to you again soon!
Your Friend,
David D.
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